Yeah, I'm not just seeing it. Based on what principle of moral theology is any tattoo grave matter? I could see the gross excesses that some people go to, due to disfigurement of the body ... along with those gross piercings. But to make an analogy with piercing, I can't see how a woman piercing her ears for some earrings would be grave matter, whereas those bizarre tongue piercings and nose piercings definitely cross a line. I would think it's the same for a tattoo. If it doesn't grossly disfigure the body, I can't imagine a principle of moral theology that would make it grave matter or even venial matter. And probably some tattoos would be serious depending on what they were. But a small cross tattooed on someone's upper arm, for instance, I just can't see it.