Having been a "trad school brat" myself, I can honestly say that there are many weird and wonderful things go on in our SSPX schools that are seen as regrettable by the faculty the next WEEK, let alone in years to come. As with so many of these things, this incident will probably be best committed to memory, to crop up at old boys' and girls' reunions*. There are many decisions taken in such schools that have not necessarily had deep, theologically-inspired forethought, nor have the backing of the teachers nor parents. I certainly would not wish to enter a legal battle to defend some incidents in my school. Most go unnoticed except among the indignant pupils, who forget about it in a few days anyways. Unfortunately, in this case, the poor female referee will not.
Lest anyone should think that sport is exclusively a male concern in the SSPX world, here in England two of my female cousins,both devout traditionalists, have been members of the women's rugby team at university, without being "cast out into the darkness".
*but not, presumably, together.... :wink: