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St. Mary's Academy refuses female referee
« on: February 15, 2008, 08:53:22 PM »
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    St. Mary's Academy refuses female referee
    « Reply #1 on: February 16, 2008, 09:51:01 AM »
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  • Quote from: ChantCd
    Gary Musselman, the association's executive director, said the organization will not make a decision until it confirms whether St. Mary's Academy has a policy of not allowing female referees to work boys basketball games.

    If that is indeed the school's written policy, Musselman said, the association could decide to remove St. Mary's Academy from the list of approved schools and take away its ability to compete against the association's more than 300 member schools.

    St. Mary's Academy officials declined comment when contacted by The Associated Press on Wednesday.

    St. Mary's Academy is among 30 schools on the list that are not full association members but compete against schools that are. Musselman said St. Mary's Academy plays one or two games per season against member schools but has no more scheduled this school year.

    He said if removed from the approved list for next school year, St. Mary's Academy still would be able to compete against approved schools that are not members of the association.


    Does this mean St. Mary's could lose its status as an "approved" school in general? Or does this word "approved" just concern playing basketball? Does "approved" mean the same thing as being on the list of members of the association or just approved regardless?
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    St. Mary's Academy refuses female referee
    « Reply #2 on: February 16, 2008, 09:59:56 AM »
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  • It would be ridiculous if St. Mary's was just shut down over this, but I sure hope things work out. Sadly, our modern society does not understand the differences between men and women, although it probably would not have been wrong if the woman was allowed to referee. Nonetheless, I could though see where it is something unusual because men are usually seen as referees. There is a bearing on the fact that men are mostly to be the authority over women, but there are times when boys and men are under the authority of women. The woman referee in the situation seems to not want to cause controversy. I'm not sure who would have made such a big deal out of this whole issue. Why was she set to be a referee in the first place then if it would not have been desirable according to some at St. Mary's?
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    St. Mary's Academy refuses female referee
    « Reply #3 on: February 16, 2008, 10:00:22 AM »
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    As the values of this society move further away from traditional Catholic ones


    No, the values of the Society and traditional Catholic ones are ONE AND THE SAME.

    If you see an apparent contradiction, you need to go read up on traditional Catholicism. Read books like the Integrity series, St Thomas Aquinas, etc. and learn more clearly the traditional Catholic position on the male/female question.

    Nuns teaching grade school is a completely different matter.

    Currently, there aren't enough priests/male teachers to teach all the young men -- which means that we must settle for more female teachers than would be ideal. But that's a "lesser of two evils" proposition. (Public school would be much worse than being taught by a traditional Catholic female)

    Below a certain age, boys don't NEED a male influence the way they do when they hit age 11 or 12. It takes a MAN to make a man out of a boy.

    As the wise man said...

    "Nemo dat quod non habet"

    (no one gives what he doesn't have)


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    St. Mary's Academy refuses female referee
    « Reply #4 on: February 16, 2008, 10:04:27 AM »
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  • Then again, I would say that it would not have been appropriate to have a female referee then, taking back what I said before, considering what Matthew has just said about boys being below a certain age, where they would not need a male influence the way they would if they are older.
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    « Reply #5 on: February 16, 2008, 10:06:53 AM »
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    As the values of this society move further away from traditional Catholic ones


    No, the values of the Society and traditional Catholic ones are ONE AND THE SAME.

    If you see an apparent contradiction, you need to go read up on traditional Catholicism. Read books like the Integrity series, St Thomas Aquinas, etc. and learn more clearly the traditional Catholic position on the male/female question.

    Nuns teaching grade school is a completely different matter.

    Currently, there aren't enough priests/male teachers to teach all the young men -- which means that we must settle for more female teachers than would be ideal. But that's a "lesser of two evils" proposition. (Public school would be much worse than being taught by a traditional Catholic female)

    Below a certain age, boys don't NEED a male influence the way they do when they hit age 11 or 12. It takes a MAN to make a man out of a boy.

    As the wise man said...

    "Nemo dat quod non habet"

    (no one gives what he doesn't have)


    Matthew


    I think adhoc may have been actually referring to human society rather than the SSPX.
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    St. Mary's Academy refuses female referee
    « Reply #6 on: February 16, 2008, 10:24:28 AM »
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  • If so, then I made a very understandable mistake.

    He said "this society" and not "society".

    When someone says "society" by itself I assume they mean the world at large. When they say "the society" or "this society" I suspect they are talking about the SSPX.

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    « Reply #7 on: February 16, 2008, 10:48:31 AM »
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  • It would need to be also considered the example to be given to adolescents watching the game. Maybe there was a consideration of modesty in the issue too.
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    « Reply #8 on: February 16, 2008, 11:05:02 AM »
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    It would need to be also considered the example to be given to adolescents watching the game. Maybe there was a consideration of modesty in the issue too.


    You obviously didn't read my original post on this thread.  :wink:


    I believe I did before.  

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    St. Mary's Academy refuses female referee
    « Reply #9 on: February 16, 2008, 11:16:20 AM »
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  • Then again, if I didn't read it before, I still read it after you mentioned about your first post in this thread, FM.

    P.S. Please consider that I can get kind of forgetful about things easily, although your first post did sort of seem familiar to me.  
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    St. Mary's Academy refuses female referee
    « Reply #10 on: February 16, 2008, 11:57:07 AM »
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  • I don't know about that since I'm confused about what you said now.  :laugh1: :confused1:
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    « Reply #11 on: February 16, 2008, 12:10:26 PM »
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  • FourMarks mentioned that we really don't know what the female Ref was wearing. And indeed we don't!

    Why not just trust the judgment of a very traditional Catholic school -- which has been excellent in every other area?  I think they have earned the benefit of the doubt.

    I think that we armchair theologians who are judging this great Catholic university are not in complete possession of the facts of the case. Let's face it -- the priests at St. Mary's (including the headmaster) certainly know more about theology, philosophy, and Catholic tradition than we do.

    That is my position on the issue.

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    St. Mary's Academy refuses female referee
    « Reply #12 on: February 16, 2008, 12:11:09 PM »
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    I don't know about that since I'm confused about what you said now.  :laugh1: :confused1:


    Four_Marks originally said: "I agree. This is a weird story. As we all know, nuns were allowed to teach, so they were in charge of males. So, that (being a referee) shouldn't be an issue. I wonder if the issue may have been what the woman referee was wearing?"

    LOL  :smile:


    Okay, I realize it now. Thanks!  :smile:
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    « Reply #13 on: February 17, 2008, 03:15:51 AM »
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  • Having been a "trad school brat" myself, I can honestly say that there are many weird and wonderful things go on in our SSPX schools that are seen as regrettable by the faculty the next WEEK, let alone in years to come. As with so many of these things, this incident will probably be best committed to memory, to crop up at old boys' and girls' reunions*. There are many decisions taken in such schools that have not necessarily had deep, theologically-inspired forethought, nor have the backing of  the teachers nor parents. I certainly would not wish to enter a legal battle to defend some incidents in my school. Most go unnoticed except among the indignant pupils, who forget about it in a few days anyways. Unfortunately, in this case, the poor female referee will not.

    Lest anyone should think that sport is exclusively a male concern in the SSPX world, here in England two of my female cousins,both devout traditionalists, have been members of the women's rugby team at university, without being "cast out into the darkness".




    *but not, presumably, together.... :wink:

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    « Reply #14 on: February 21, 2008, 06:17:57 AM »
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