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Offline MaterDominici

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« Reply #45 on: July 17, 2011, 10:32:07 PM »
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    « Reply #46 on: July 18, 2011, 12:01:25 AM »
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  • If you add the adjective "Vietnamese" to "single trad women" I think that it is decrease by 99%. So it can't be that bad for all the European descent people.




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    Shortage of single Trad women?
    « Reply #47 on: July 18, 2011, 12:48:18 AM »
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    I already know I couldn't live the single life, too lonely and pointless for me.


    It takes a couple years to get used to the idea of no one being around who cares if you live or die, no one crying at your funeral, etc... But after you do get used to it, it is absolutely fantastic to be single.  It seems to me almost as if married people are part of another religion, though I know they're not.  But the mindset of someone who wants to be married, as opposed to someone who doesn't, is very different.  You will notice that the single people in the parish tend to hang out with other single people, and the families with other families.  It's like we are two different breeds within the same Church.  

    Of course, I'd rather be a monk and be part of a community, but I'm not inclined to take a vow of poverty to live in a fly-by-night monastery, like with the Abbot Leonard situation.  Some might say this shows lack of confidence in God.  Maybe so, so let me rephrase -- I would join a small monastery if I felt total confidence that it was right for me, but that hasn't happened.  In France the one monastery I know of is sedeprivationist, and while I'm not totally opposed to that theory, I'm not going to go around shilling for it either when it doesn't convince me.  Well, it turns out that unless you are sedeprivationist, you won't make it with that group.

    The CMRI has a large group of nuns, but for whatever reason, their monastery has never taken off.  I think they have one or two brothers, lol.  Lolling aside, it is really sad that there is almost no way for sedevacantist males to be monks.  I'm positive this is what is driving so many of them to marriage.  If we had thriving monasteries, so many trads would be attracted to it, but we don't.  Just look at what the devil has accomplished here.  A Church without monasteries, without numerous examples of humility and poverty to attract youth, is like a garden of stones where the only flowers that grow are the ones that grow between the cracks.  It has typically been monks and religious like St. Francis who refresh and restore the Church in times of crisis, and monks like this are glaring by their absence today.  There are a couple here and there, but it is depressingly sparse compared to previous times.
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    Shortage of single Trad women?
    « Reply #48 on: July 18, 2011, 01:11:56 AM »
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  • Another feather in the SSPX's hat -- lots of vocations to not only the priesthood, but the religious life as well -- both male AND female.

    Actually, the SSPX doesn't set up monasteries, per se, but they are "allied" with several other traditional groups: the monks in Silver City, NM (they are 100% traditional Benedictines -- but not sedevacantist), the Dominican monastery in France, etc.

    There is an un-impeded flow in and out of those locations. That is, SSPX faithful send their sons and daughters to try out vocations in these places. Also, the SSPX ordains priests for the Silver City monastery.

    Sometimes, once in a while, a group will "sell out" to Rome, but there are still plenty left that haven't sold out.

    As they say, "truth is one, error is many" so it's comforting that so many departments of the (insert adjective here: classic, old, real, ancient) Catholic Church have recognized each other and co-exist peacefully, just as in days of old.

    In other words, it's good that several have come to the same "Tradition must live" conclusion as the SSPX. All things being equal, 15 people coming to the same conclusion is better than 1 or 2 people.

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    « Reply #49 on: July 18, 2011, 02:43:35 AM »
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    There are plenty of available women in northeast Wisconsin.

     :smirk:


    hmm, I've always wanted to visit Wisconsin. I hear it's an udder delight !



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    « Reply #50 on: July 18, 2011, 10:13:17 AM »
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  • I hear you, Raoul, and see your point. But I don't think I'm called to the single life. Or atleast, I haven't felt a calling to the single life yet.
    Please ignore ALL of my posts. I was naive during my time posting on this forum and didn’t know any better. I retract and deeply regret any and all uncharitable or erroneous statements I ever made here.

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    « Reply #51 on: July 18, 2011, 09:02:39 PM »
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    I already know I couldn't live the single life, too lonely and pointless for me.


    It takes a couple years to get used to the idea of no one being around who cares if you live or die, no one crying at your funeral, etc... But after you do get used to it, it is absolutely fantastic to be single.  It seems to me almost as if married people are part of another religion, though I know they're not.  But the mindset of someone who wants to be married, as opposed to someone who doesn't, is very different.  You will notice that the single people in the parish tend to hang out with other single people, and the families with other families.  It's like we are two different breeds within the same Church.  

    Of course, I'd rather be a monk and be part of a community, but I'm not inclined to take a vow of poverty to live in a fly-by-night monastery, like with the Abbot Leonard situation.  Some might say this shows lack of confidence in God.  Maybe so, so let me rephrase -- I would join a small monastery if I felt total confidence that it was right for me, but that hasn't happened.  In France the one monastery I know of is sedeprivationist, and while I'm not totally opposed to that theory, I'm not going to go around shilling for it either when it doesn't convince me.  Well, it turns out that unless you are sedeprivationist, you won't make it with that group.

    The CMRI has a large group of nuns, but for whatever reason, their monastery has never taken off.  I think they have one or two brothers, lol.  Lolling aside, it is really sad that there is almost no way for sedevacantist males to be monks.  I'm positive this is what is driving so many of them to marriage.  If we had thriving monasteries, so many trads would be attracted to it, but we don't.  Just look at what the devil has accomplished here.  A Church without monasteries, without numerous examples of humility and poverty to attract youth, is like a garden of stones where the only flowers that grow are the ones that grow between the cracks.  It has typically been monks and religious like St. Francis who refresh and restore the Church in times of crisis, and monks like this are glaring by their absence today.  There are a couple here and there, but it is depressingly sparse compared to previous times.


    Alas my poor sweet Benedict he who cries for singularity of person and weeps at the thought of marriage intwined. Dost thought know Much Ado About Nothing about these things for which we hath seen all around us for these many years upon which we hath  been across this earth. Mayhaps who knows for which may come again save God that in these coming years you may have come upon perchance a fancy upon a girl as fair as your Beatrice of whom you doth argue loudly upon.

    Moreover sir it would displease me not to see you with fair maiden's hand before the Friar but alas it comes upon God's Grace to see if thoust hath a vocation :)