Author Topic: Sexless marriages and very small families (Read 62185 times)

Pax Vobis · « **Reply #50 on:** January 23, 2019, 04:31:21 PM »

True, Royal Marriages were fixed but not all of them were disasters. Many times the king/queen were brought together at a young age, and grew up together as they were both prepped to rule the country. Many times they grew to love each other. The Europeans just didn’t throw people together and tell them “ok, go make an heir.” That’s just anti-Catholic lies about the “dark ages” of history.

If both were good Catholics, as happened a lot, then I’m sure their marriage was enjoyable. (God knows from all eternity who will be married, so even in the event that it is “fixed” beyond your control, good can come from bad or there might not be any bad at all.). Even Henry VIII and Catherine’s marriage was good for a while, until he couldn’t have a son and went off the deep end.

songbird · « **Reply #51 on:** January 23, 2019, 04:50:15 PM »

I don't want to get off the subject, I won't. My sister married and for 10 years could not figure out why her husband did not like having time with her. They had a son, then the 2nd son, my sister had a c-section. She had herpes. She thought nothing of it. Her doctor told her herpes was common! When I found out about this and said to her sister, herpes is a SID. She screamed at me saying that I should think of such things against her or her husband. She finally found out that her husband was ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ.

Then she found out that the priest who married them had no sympathy and she found 4 other couples in the New Order church, in the same boat, only the women had nothing to say about the arrangement.

My sister got an annulment for her husband keeping a lie, "before" the marriage. His parents testified that they knew he was a ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ.

Very sad.

songbird · « **Reply #52 on:** January 23, 2019, 04:50:44 PM »

SID is supposed to be STD. Excuse me.

ggreg · « **Reply #53 on:** January 23, 2019, 05:00:31 PM »

Quote from: songbird on January 23, 2019, 04:50:15 PM

I don't want to get off the subject, I won't. My sister married and for 10 years could not figure out why her husband did not like having time with her. They had a son, then the 2nd son, my sister had a c-section. She had herpes. She thought nothing of it. Her doctor told her herpes was common! When I found out about this and said to her sister, herpes is a SID. She screamed at me saying that I should think of such things against her or her husband. She finally found out that her husband was ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ.

Then she found out that the priest who married them had no sympathy and she found 4 other couples in the New Order church, in the same boat, only the women had nothing to say about the arrangement.

My sister got an annulment for her husband keeping a lie, "before" the marriage. His parents testified that they knew he was a ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ.

Very sad.

You must have met the man before her wedding, I guess, since she is your sister. Did you have any indication he was a homo?
Was there anyway your sister could have known or was she completely hoodwinked in your opinion.
To Pax Vobis I would ask this. This marriage was consummated and produced two children. Would it have been annulled in the past? Since annulments were very rare I can only assume no.

Croixalist · « **Reply #54 on:** January 23, 2019, 05:07:40 PM »

Quote from: songbird on January 23, 2019, 04:50:15 PM

I don't want to get off the subject, I won't. My sister married and for 10 years could not figure out why her husband did not like having time with her. They had a son, then the 2nd son, my sister had a c-section. She had herpes. She thought nothing of it. Her doctor told her herpes was common! When I found out about this and said to her sister, herpes is a STD. She screamed at me saying that I should think of such things against her or her husband. She finally found out that her husband was ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ.

Then she found out that the priest who married them had no sympathy and she found 4 other couples in the New Order church, in the same boat, only the women had nothing to say about the arrangement.

My sister got an annulment for her husband keeping a lie, "before" the marriage. His parents testified that they knew he was a ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ.

Very sad.

That's the worst, especially for the kids! But again, treating ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖity as some sacred cow of permanent desire is wrong too. How many turn ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ because they just have to be validated sɛҳuąƖly. It's like "well, I don't really enjoy grilling chicken, but I like fire so I think I must be called to burn houses down." Every ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ act is homicidal.

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