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Offline PereJoseph

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« Reply #135 on: May 15, 2012, 03:02:38 PM »
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    Traditional Catholics have their own cultural norms, this is because the general culture is in stark opposition to Catholic ways.


    Yes, I think that is exactly right.  Tele, I like that picture you posted.  I think it does a good job of showing a traditional Christian (as opposed to Protestant) form of dress -- it is modest without being frumpy; the women are sufficiently covered while also maintaining a tasteful appearance.

    Here is another one, depicting the national costumes of the Balearic Islands.  I defy anybody to accuse the women of this Mediterranean culture of having dressed "frumpily"; then again, people seem to use that word in a wide variety of ways.  I have a very clear image in my mind of what "frumpy" is (think of the picture of those fundamentalist Mormon women or the "Plain Catholic" website), but I do not find burqas to be frumpy either, only excessive, whereas others have told me that they do find burqas frumpy.  Thus, I conclude that we should agree on a definition on this thread before proceeding further.  Anyway, here is the photo :



    I believe that is the Catholic way.

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    No, I think women are better off wearing "out of date" clothing than dressing immodestly.


    Muslim women actually do tend to practice modesty.  In that respect their natural virtue puts most Christians to shame.  That so many have refused to go along with liberal secular dress merits great praise.


    And they usually wear trousers.


    I have lived around Mohammedans before and have been to Mohammedan countries; it seems like, unless they are wearing a burqa, the most popular and common thing to see on Mohammedan women is tight blue jeans and copious facial make-up, particularly around the eyes.  And they dress in such form-fitting clothing despite covering their heads, which I find so silly -- a clear example of the letter killing the spirit of the law.  I have an old friend who once saw a Turkish woman in hijab and jeans passionately kissing some man in a public park in Constantinople.  Apparently, whatever the original point of the hijab was in Mohammedan countries, a large portion have forgotten it.  

    That being said, I lived around Mohammedans who immigrated to the US and Turkey is a saecularised country, so maybe these are not good samples, though Clare is in the UK and apparently has witnessed the same thing. Many of the women of the older generations (and some from the younger) dress in flowing robes, however, or full burqas.  These are certainly modest and, amongst the Arabs I saw at Constantinople, sometimes quite elegant and beautiful in their own way.

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    « Reply #136 on: May 15, 2012, 03:04:09 PM »
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    And they usually wear trousers.


    The people who say that Christian women wearing veils look like Muslims wouldn't say that about Christian women wearing pants, would they?

    Of course Muslim women have traditionally worn trousers, but they wear a covering over them.  

    Christian women can distinguish themselves from Muslims by refusing to wear pants, since it's not traditional in western societies for women to wear them.


    Good points all around.

    It should be pointed out, too, that the trousers worn by Central Asian, Indian, and East Asian women are very loose and not form-fitting.


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    « Reply #137 on: May 15, 2012, 03:07:32 PM »
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    That being said, I lived around Mohammedans who immigrated to the US and Turkey is a saecularised country


    Yes, in my conversations with Turkish women, and they seem a lot more like western women in their manners.

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    « Reply #138 on: May 15, 2012, 05:16:20 PM »
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    No, I think women are better off wearing "out of date" clothing than dressing immodestly.

    You are creating a false dichotomy. And wearing clothing that is out of date is immodest because it draws attention to oneself.

    There's nothing traditional about drawing attention to oneself.

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    « Reply #139 on: May 15, 2012, 05:20:28 PM »
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    There is no issue with long skirts in and of themselves. A long-sleeve, ankle-length dress in the height of summer could be another matter entirely.


    Sorry, but that is arrant nonsense.

    Your calling it nonsense doesn't make it so.

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    There is no requirement for young women to show their ankles and go bare sleaved in a dress to satisfy your desire that they conform to the modern world.

    Bare-sleeved? Who said anything about bare arms?

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    That you try to call it "immodest" takes the cake.

    It is immodest for a layperson to call attention to him- or herself by the way he or she dresses. St. Thomas identifies dressing in such a way as a vice. But perhaps you know better than he.

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    It really is the same thing as liberal priests and nuns mocking traditionalists for wearing traditional habits they consider outmoded.

    No, it isn't. First, priests and religious should be easily identifiable by what they wear. Laypeople should not. Second, there is a difference between considering something outmoded and something's actually being outmoded. A cassock isn't outmoded, but dressing like Catharine of Aragon is.


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    « Reply #140 on: May 15, 2012, 05:22:08 PM »
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    Veils are Muslim?




    If a young lady dressed like that in ordinary circuмstances here in the U.S., people would think she is a Muslim.

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    « Reply #141 on: May 15, 2012, 05:25:55 PM »
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    If a young lady dressed like that in ordinary circuмstances here in the U.S., people would think she is a Muslim.


    That's because Americans, as a whole, have almost no sense of culture. When they do, they realize it is inopportune to recognize it in public settings.

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    « Reply #142 on: May 15, 2012, 05:35:05 PM »
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    Your calling it nonsense doesn't make it so.


    Catholic women have a right to wear skirts to their ankles and sleeves to their wrists, anytime, anywhere, and no modern sensibilities can take away that right.  It is absolutely insufferable nonsense for you to say they are obliged to expose their arms or show the outline of part of their legs lest they "stand out"

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    It is immodest for a layperson to call attention to him- or herself by the way he or she dresses.


    If people think that a Catholic girl wearing a long skirt and long sleaves is "drawing attention to herself" the problem is with them.  The problem is with you.  They make you uncomfortable.

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    St. Thomas identifies dressing in such a way as a vice. But perhaps you know better than he.


    St. Thomas would never have said a Catholic woman must expose part of her arms and legs or otherwise she is immodest.  

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    No, it isn't. First, priests and religious should be easily identifiable by what they wear. Laypeople should not.


    Catholics should be indistinguishable from the way others dress?  Even if everyone else dresses immodestly?  Really, your insistence that wearing a long skirt and long sleaves is "immodest" has the same trajectory.  What was once immodest for being exposure, is now, according to you, "immodest" because it covers too much.  That is relativism.

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    Second, there is a difference between considering something outmoded and something's actually being outmoded.


    And if I say it's not outmoded for Catholic women to wear skirts to the ankles and long sleeves, who are you to say otherwise?  Those who say traditionalist priests and nuns wear outmoded fashions are using the same reasoning you are in calling modestly dressed Catholic women immodest.

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    A cassock isn't outmoded, but dressing like Catharine of Aragon is.


    So first it's dressing like Muslims, now like the Queen of England.  Your comparisons are patently ridiculous.  

    Anyone who would disparage a Catholic woman for wearing a skirt that covers all of her legs and a top that covers all of her arms, saying it's "drawing attention to herself" - has  big problem.  A problem of accepting liberal changes in customs as though Catholics are bound to conform to them.


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    « Reply #143 on: May 15, 2012, 05:45:07 PM »
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    If a young lady dressed like that in ordinary circuмstances here in the U.S., people would think she is a Muslim.


    But wearing veils is not specifically Muslim, and no one has the right to claim that it is specially Muslim.

    You are traducing Catholic traditional dress in favor of liberal secular dress.

    You have no right to say a woman is acting like a Muslim wearing a veil, anymore than to say she's acting like a Muslim by being chaste.

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    « Reply #144 on: May 15, 2012, 05:49:54 PM »
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  • I'm not encouraging young women to wear veils, it would be nice if it wasn't considered eccentric.  Of course so long as Catholics enforce liberal norms on each other while always harshly criticizing those who try to be more traditional, and rebelling against those who say we should have higher standards, then behavior and attitudes will continue to worsen among Catholics.

    There are various head coverings women can wear.  Wearing a veil, though perhaps injudicious, does not make anyone a Muslim.  In Eastern Europe women still wear such things.  And they are not Muslims.

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    « Reply #145 on: May 15, 2012, 05:52:57 PM »
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    No, I think women are better off wearing "out of date" clothing than dressing immodestly.

    You are creating a false dichotomy. And wearing clothing that is out of date is immodest because it draws attention to oneself.

    There's nothing traditional about drawing attention to oneself.


    So what is appropriate then?
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    « Reply #146 on: May 15, 2012, 05:58:58 PM »
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    So what is appropriate then?


    There's a difference between drawing attention to oneself and not being afraid to stand out by dressing traditionally.  In this society the traditionally dressed person (especially a woman) will stand out.  It's unavoidable.  

    i wear a long sleeves, a button down shirt, jeans and a hat with a brim to keep the sun off my face.  People sometimes yell out at me from cars, etc.

    Am I required to wear lighter clothes, expose skin to sunlight, not wear a hat, because of people who like to point and jeer?  I think someone who says yes is a jerk.

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    « Reply #147 on: May 15, 2012, 06:01:32 PM »
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  • I agree, Tele. I am just asking "Pepsuber" what he thinks is appropriate. He seems to think dressing with the times is best. The stench of feminism rears its ugly head yet again...
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    « Reply #148 on: May 15, 2012, 06:07:19 PM »
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    I agree, Tele. I am just asking "Pepsuber" what he thinks is appropriate. He seems to think dressing with the times is best. The stench of feminism rears its ugly head yet again...


    I wouldn't all it feminism per se.  

    Most "conservatives" object more to trying to return to past customs more than they object to modern customs.  That seems to be the overwhelming pattern.  There is a very deep hostility to traditionalism when it has a social cost.

    It would be one thing if pepsuber was just talking about people who are too eccentric, too costume oriented.  But his way of thinking, (and his derogatory comments: comparing Catholics to Muslims and mormons, comparing them to 15th Century queens,) that the problem that dressing the way Catholics would have dressed in the recent past is now socially unacceptable because of liberalism, makes Catholic dress hostage to liberalism.

    So long as such "conservatives" hold sway, there will only be a continuing slide towards the gradual dissolution of all traditional ways among Catholics.

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    « Reply #149 on: May 15, 2012, 06:19:48 PM »
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    The stench of feminism rears its ugly head yet again...


    I agree with you that in most cases the intense hostility to traditional dress in women is motivated primarily by feminism.  But I don't see evidence here that that is the case.  Except for the comparison to Muslims.