Agree with Fr. unless this man becomes Traditional Catholic and practices the Faith for at least a year or more, without pursuing a serious (dating/courting) relationship with you, don’t consider him.  Even if he does become Catholic, don’t wait on him.  Keep looking.  There’s a chance he’ll find another Catholic woman, but you will have done your part to save his soul!  You may find someone else.  He may start, but not persevere.  You may never find a husband, so you need to consider that possibility and plan accordingly.  
The times are very difficult so both men and women should look for a spouse if they think marriage is their state of life, but they should both consider the religious life if that’s a possibility, and both should prepare to support themselves should neither marriage nor religion come to pass.  
Ladies, especially, beware of finding yourself single, in your 40’s and up, with no family able or willing to support you, and no job skills or means of support.  

Only traditional Catholics believe that marriage is indissoluble until death. Novus Ordos, Indulters and nearly everyone else who believes the Vatican 2 church is the Catholic Church believe your marriage is indissoluble until you get an "annulment" and then you can leave your spouse and marry someone else.

It's a very bad idea to get married to someone if you think your marriage is indissoluble until death and the other person thinks the above. You are in grave danger of being left abandoned for the rest of your life.