Great suggestions! Thank you, Matthew!
We have been thinking of having introductions on Friday evening where everyone stands up and gives a short description of themselves and some of their hobbies. Maybe that would be a good time to mention if they are currently open to courtship.
We really appreciate any tips people can share. All for the greater honor and glory of God! 😇🙏
A couple points --
1. Some people (especially ladies) can be very shy on this topic. That's why you need to make sure it doesn't get left out. BUT
2. I think it would be best to go for SUBTLE, again, because a good feminine woman will be bashful about advertising herself. So I think "open to courtship!" would be too forward for some (many?). I think something more like a color code, the border around the nametag, or something.
3. I should also add -- this color code is for the benefit of those seeking spouses AND those NOT seeking spouses. Both types will be interested in some kind of system, subtle but effective, to let everyone know who is available/interested in romantic attention -- and who is not.
4. There's also the phenomenon that many people aren't open to love/marriage until they meet the right person -- then they totally change their mind. So you don't want to force them to commit to a person they are unaware of, who doesn't exist to them yet. It's kind of like going against nature. Just let them think they want to stay single. So you have to be careful how you word it -- I mean, how you ask them "are you open to courtship?". Now that might actually be a good way (the best way?) to ask the question; I'm not shooting it down. I'm just throwing this point about human nature out there.
There are a ton of different ways to accomplish this, I'm sure.