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Offline klasG4e

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Private vow of weekly confession
« on: October 09, 2016, 12:02:51 AM »
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  • Private vow of weekly confession

    I plan on consulting with my confessor/spiritual director about making a private vow to do all that I reasonably can to receive the Sacrament of Penance at least once a week as a very important means of growing in the spiritual life..  (I do not foresee trying to go more than once a week outside of some extraordinary circuмstances/occasion.)

    If anyone  wishes to share any thoughts on one's venture to make such a vow, one which perhaps you have already made or might consider making, I'd love to hear from you!

    cf. VOWS







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    « Reply #1 on: October 09, 2016, 07:08:36 AM »
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  • You are blessed to have weekly access to a traditional priest for confession. Most trads do not.


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    « Reply #2 on: October 09, 2016, 02:33:46 PM »
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    You are blessed to have weekly access to a traditional priest for confession. Most trads do not.

    Yes, indeed I am and he seems to be a truly pious, devout, dedicated and wise priest as well who I am already benefiting from.  I have made pious resolutions in the past to go to confession every week, but my own pride has caused me to fall (not follow) through consistently on these resolutions.  I truly believe the serious and sacred solemnity of a vow if carried out in the right manner and with a sincere and directed intention will help tremendously -- primarily through God's grace -- to enable me to accomplish my goal of weekly confession.  I view it as the one extremely vital way of rooting out personal faults which without this weekly confession would otherwise be next to impossible to accomplish on my own.

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    « Reply #3 on: October 09, 2016, 03:20:02 PM »
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  • Have you thought of making a true devotion consecration to Our Lady by St. Louis De Montfort as a way of naturally keeping the vow for weekly confession? A person who was truly devoted to Our Lady under the rubric of St. Louis De Montfort would be driven to weekly confession.

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    « Reply #4 on: October 09, 2016, 04:27:27 PM »
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  • What do you do if you have no sins to confess? Do you still go to confession? I mean what do you do if you do not commit a venial sin for a whole week? If you go to weekly confession and you have no sins to confess, what do you do?
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    « Reply #5 on: October 09, 2016, 04:32:56 PM »
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  • Confessions of devotion and I would look at your predominant fault that would need to be worked on.

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    « Reply #6 on: October 09, 2016, 06:25:30 PM »
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  • Exactly!

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    « Reply #7 on: October 09, 2016, 07:03:25 PM »
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    Have you thought of making a true devotion consecration to Our Lady by St. Louis De Montfort as a way of naturally keeping the vow for weekly confession? A person who was truly devoted to Our Lady under the rubric of St. Louis De Montfort would be driven to weekly confession.

    Yes, I have considered that consecration, but never in terms of "keeping the vow for weekly confession."   It would certainly be one more reason to consider taking that big step.

    Being "forced" by your own vow to humbly go to confession, especially when you might feel particularity weary, humiliated, or ashamed should really help in so many powerful ways.  

    I think weekly confession, regardless of your own particular inclinations, is such a powerful pillar of the spiritual life to build on.  Many of us I think have to fight a spirit of luke warmness setting in where we tend to lose our fervor of prayer life and the fervor we should have in all other aspects of our spiritual life.  (In this modern world with so many of its material distractions the mind/spirit can become so easily dissipated. One of the easiest things to put off then is confession!)  When that luke warmness sets in we are moving incrementally to a blindness and or greater rationalization of our little and later bigger sins/faults.

    I am up in years.  I know I must waste no more time and feel quite bad for all the time I have already wasted.  Time is too valuable, far too valuable to waste.  I certainly can't presume on my eternal salvation.  I must work it out in  fear and trembling.

    I don't want to be one of that immense number that end up being eternally lost and at the same time I realize that the more I have been given -- and I have been given a tremendous amount of blessings and talents in life -- the more I will be held accountable for.  That thought can be a dreadful one when we realize how short we have all fallen of the mark.  It is easy to look at the great sinner and say, "Ah, but for the grace of God go I" than it is to look at a saint and say, "Ah, but for my lack of cooperation with God's grace go I."  I want to grow in virtue and not remain sluggish in petty vices which like as St. John of the Cross teaches us: a string around the bird can hold it back from flying free just as surely as a heavy chain can.

    That is all why I look very forward to making this solemn vow under the guidance of my priest/confessor/spiritual director before the altar of God.  May I humbly pray that God give me the strength, desire, light, and courage to carry out what I believe to be the right thing for me to do.




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    « Reply #8 on: October 13, 2016, 10:02:57 AM »
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  • I consulted with my confessor/spiritual director and he strongly advised me not to take the vow due to its seriousness and consequently the serious sin of ever breaking it, not to mention the very possible emotional distress, if not even a certain possible despair if I did break it.  I have a great deal of confidence in the wisdom of this individual so I will not be going forward with the vow.

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    « Reply #9 on: October 13, 2016, 11:29:32 AM »
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  • Quote from: Matto
    What do you do if you have no sins to confess? Do you still go to confession? I mean what do you do if you do not commit a venial sin for a whole week? If you go to weekly confession and you have no sins to confess, what do you do?


    Go regardless. At the very least, it would be profitable for your soul by increasing sanctifying grace and protection from the Devil. You can always confess again the sins of your previous life and also be sorry for the sins you are not aware of. Pray fervently so the Holy Ghost actually shows you the sins you are guilty of and remove that veil off your eyes. This is not as easy as it seems, in reality be aware of all our sins, that is. Most sinners are completely unaware of their sins by a devil-inflicted blindness and as a consequence for unconfessed sins.

    You can say briefly at the end "for these sins.... and also all the of my previous life and the sins I am not aware of, I am deeply sorry and ask forgiveness from God and from you Father...."
    If anyone says that true and natural water is not necessary for baptism and thus twists into some metaphor the words of our Lord Jesus Christ" Unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Spirit" (Jn 3:5) let him be anathema.

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    « Reply #10 on: October 13, 2016, 11:39:44 AM »
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    I consulted with my confessor/spiritual director and he strongly advised me not to take the vow due to its seriousness and consequently the serious sin of ever breaking it, not to mention the very possible emotional distress, if not even a certain possible despair if I did break it.  I have a great deal of confidence in the wisdom of this individual so I will not be going forward with the vow.

    I was going to say the same thing, do not make a vow, just go - and if you miss a week  - or two, you're ok.
    "But Peter and the apostles answering, said: We ought to obey God, rather than men." - Acts 5:29

    The Highest Principle in the Church: "We are first of all under obedience to God, and only then under obedience to man" - Fr. Hesse


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    « Reply #11 on: October 13, 2016, 05:04:05 PM »
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  • We are told in no uncertain terms by St. Alphonsus to follow our Spiritual Director. Follow him and you will sail to the ark of salvation.

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    « Reply #12 on: October 23, 2016, 10:22:28 PM »
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  • Anything less than martyrdom, given what is going on in the world, would seem inadequate for salvation, IMO. Those who are aware, or those who know they could be more aware, are not somehow absolved. We're in the middle of all-out spiritual war, and all folks seem to care about is carefully obtaining their Golden Ticket to the Pearly Gates.

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    « Reply #13 on: October 24, 2016, 02:21:28 AM »
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  • Quote from: Steve Hanniwald
    Anything less than martyrdom, given what is going on in the world, would seem inadequate for salvation, IMO.


    Opinions don't count much and it's not wise to lay down your own conditions on what is necessary for salvation.

    Quote from: Steve Hanniwald
    all folks seem to care about is carefully obtaining their Golden Ticket to the Pearly Gates.


    That does not happen anywhere I go or anywhere I have been. Most people don't care a hoot; they're too busy living for the moment.

    Help of Christians, guard our land from assault or inward stain,
    Let it be what God has planned, His new Eden where You reign.