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Prayers for my Aunt
« on: March 12, 2026, 07:03:40 AM »
My aunt, 43, has been slowly killing herself since my Nanny died in 2020. Since then she hasn't done anything aside from a few outings except stay in bed all day, watch her phone and her TV, sleep and be fed and paid for by her husband. She has lost the use of her legs, she has had multiple infections and surgeries, and refused to go to the hospital until critical. Before this, she was incredibly healthy. 

She is using my house today to see her therapist. Her own house is incredibly filthy, according to her husband would take weeks to clean and I believe it. Her husband wheeled her into my spare bedroom this morning. I am asking those of you in here to pray for her. She believes in Jesus, I don't know anything else, she does not want to be talked to.

Offline Gray2023

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Re: Prayers for my Aunt
« Reply #1 on: March 12, 2026, 10:52:28 AM »
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Offline Stubborn

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Re: Prayers for my Aunt
« Reply #2 on: March 12, 2026, 11:25:52 AM »
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Get her a trad priest if at all possible.

Re: Prayers for my Aunt
« Reply #3 on: March 12, 2026, 11:43:34 AM »
Your Aunt is seriously depressed. While she may not have set to slowly kill herself, that is indeed what she’s doing. It is time she get in treatment, medical as well as psychological. What are the qualifications of the therapist?  Does he/she know it’s not her house?  It’s imperative the therapist knows the extent of her condition. Hoarding, not cleaning, IS a psychiatric disorder that goes along with depression and anxiety. If at all possible, one of you must tell this to the therapist. That she not in a wheelchair prior to her mother’s passing. It’s possible her husband is enabling her to continue in this downward spiral. If so, he needs counseling, also.
This is beyond a “We’ll talk it over,” kind of therapy. I think a visit to psychiatrist is very much in order. If she won’t go and her husband refuses, consider contacting your local mental health agency or report her (and husband) to Adult Protective Services. Unlike CPS, they cannot compel her by law or her husband to do anything they are unwilling to do. The only time that happens is if her home is in such disarray as to be hazardous to life and limb, ie. No plumbing, full of vermin, has urine and excrement lying about, is a fire hazard. 
Yes, certainly pray, but action must go with the prayer.
You say she believes in Jesus. That’s a start, but hardly sufficient. The Devil believes in Jesus, too. 
Can you find a priest who can reach out to her?  Or can you bring one to her.  She needs spiritual help, as well, to climb out of the pit into which she has dug herself. Six years is a long time. 

Re: Prayers for my Aunt
« Reply #4 on: March 12, 2026, 05:05:54 PM »
My aunt, 43, has been slowly killing herself since my Nanny died in 2020. Since then she hasn't done anything aside from a few outings except stay in bed all day, watch her phone and her TV, sleep and be fed and paid for by her husband. She has lost the use of her legs, she has had multiple infections and surgeries, and refused to go to the hospital until critical. Before this, she was incredibly healthy.

She is using my house today to see her therapist. Her own house is incredibly filthy, according to her husband would take weeks to clean and I believe it. Her husband wheeled her into my spare bedroom this morning. I am asking those of you in here to pray for her. She believes in Jesus, I don't know anything else, she does not want to be talked to.
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