Dislike all poor people? Yikes.
I'm not hungry and without a roof over my head, but I've definately chose a life where I am 99% certain I won't have much money... Ever. My husband to be works manual labor for a wage, then comes home and does manual labor. Gardening, building, fixing the foundation on his house, chopping wood. Basically everything that middle class folks pay to have done because it makes them sweat or they don't have time to do it. He loves it, I love it, and I'll be pleased to work alongside him in that lifestyle until death do us part. It's satisfying. I go to bed every night with a tired body and a happy heart.
I remember when I converted I noticed how many trad women went about in denim skirts that I didn't find appealing to the eye. Back in the day when I frequented FE, I do believe these denim wearing women were referred to as "frumpy". Probably on SD as well. I don't know, I don't read either one anymore. Anyway, it occurred to me the other day that I crossed into the "frumpy" fashion when I looked down at my dirty denim skirt that I wear in the garden. It reaches my ankles, has very thick material, and it even has an elastic waistband. *gasp* It's my favourite skirt to wear because it has thick and durable material that I can work in without having to fuss over getting it ripped or stained, faded, wrinkled, etc. it's my fiancée favorite skirt too. He mentioned that to me the other day. I wonder if some uppity trads would thumb their nose up at me if they saw me in it. Or call me Amish, haha. If some would deem me poor, frumpy or slovenly and dislike me for it, so be it I suppose.
They probably wouldn't like the big manure pile sitting in my backyard for compost. Or the big pile of sticks and limbs we're going to use to make garden structures out of. They may be turned off too by the 2 large tanks i have for collecting rainwater for house and garden use. I wonder if all of that is considered white trash?
Despite all of that, I do manage to clean up nice when I go out in public, and especially for Mass. I keep the yard mowed adequately and my piles of this and that are landscaped creatively to where you would have to walk up to examine it in order to identify it as a manure pile or water holding tank.