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Offline Last Tradhican

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Re: Please pray for Mark79
« Reply #135 on: March 18, 2022, 07:36:07 AM »
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  • People, please!
    All I got from Mark's note was:

    "So a short summary of my/our ordeal"
    "Thanks to all known and anonymous for prayers, Masses & etc."
    "Mea culpa"

    ...and that triggers a feeding frenzy in the vulture reserve? C'mon folks!
    It was not you who posted the letter yesterday. Your posting a letter one year ago has nothing to do with what I wrote. Very strange that a letter from one year ago is posted now again by Mark79. The only thing you are answering is why would a person one year ago post to complete strangers  a long letter when they are seriously sick in bed. That is, if I understand you correctly, you are saying that it was you who posted a letter one year ago that Mark79 had sent to you. So if I understood you correctly, that answers that question.  I am talking about the letter posted yesterday by Mark79. Everyone is answering , including me, as if Mark79 is sick again. The rest of what I wrote of course is conjecture, but I'm just saying that I smell something that stinks.

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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #136 on: March 18, 2022, 07:42:47 AM »
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  • It was not you who posted the letter yesterday. Your posting a letter one year ago has nothing to do with what I wrote. Very strange that a letter from one year ago is posted now again by Mark79. The only thing you are answering is why would a person one year ago post to complete strangers  a long letter when they are seriously sick in bed. You are saying that you just posted a letter he sent to you. So that naswers that question.  I am talking about the letter posted yesterday by Mark79. Everyone is answering , including me, as if Mark79 is sick again. The rest of what I wrote of course is conjecture, but I'm just saying that I smell something that stinks.
    You do it all too often.


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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #137 on: March 18, 2022, 07:47:08 AM »
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  • You do it all too often.
    I notice that people who say such things NEVER quote me. And if they do, it is a conjecture and an extrapolation that follows, a misinterpretation of my words. That's the problem with writing, one ambiguous word and they are off with conjecture and false extrapolations to "punish" those that they hate. If we were face to face, that would not happen, moreover, we likely would not even talk because we could see what the person is like by the way they live. There would be nothing to ask.

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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #138 on: March 18, 2022, 08:02:48 AM »
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  • I notice that people who say such things NEVER quote me. And if they do, it is a conjecture and an extrapolation that follows, a misinterpretation of my words. That's the problem with writing, one ambiguous word and they are off with conjecture and false extrapolations to "punish" those that they hate. If we were face to face, that would not happen, moreover, we likely would not even talk because we could see what the person is like by the way they live. There would be nothing to ask.
    What are you talking about?  I quoted you completely, verbatim.

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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #139 on: March 18, 2022, 08:07:20 AM »
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  • What are you talking about?  I quoted you completely, verbatim.
    Once again the writer does not quote me. and now it appears it is one instance


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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #140 on: March 18, 2022, 08:17:18 AM »
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  • Once again the writer does not quote me. and now it appears it is one instance
    I know i am not blind.  See attached.

    I quote you, verbatim.

    Perhaps you have a computer glitch on your end.

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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #141 on: March 18, 2022, 08:25:28 AM »
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  • I know i am not blind.  See attached.

    I quote you, verbatim.

    Perhaps you have a computer glitch on your end.
    I see the attachment now, but I will not open it, it could have a virus, you'll have to copy and paste it from where it came on CI. 

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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #142 on: March 18, 2022, 08:32:07 AM »
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  • I see the attachment now, but I will not open it, it could have a virus, you'll have to copy and paste it from where it came on CI.
    First of all, I don't HAVE to do that.
    Secondly, I don't know how to do that.

    If you look at it on your cell phone, if you have one, you can zoom in on the attachment and read it without having to open it.

    I always quote you.
    I hope you are able to fix your glitch. 
    Maybe then we can have a reasonable, logical discussion.


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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #143 on: March 18, 2022, 08:42:02 AM »
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  • I see the attachment now, but I will not open it, it could have a virus, you'll have to copy and paste it from where it came on CI.
    Learned something new...


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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #144 on: March 18, 2022, 10:48:26 AM »
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  • Oh, now I get it.

    You did make one mistake -- your melodramatic confession and baring of your soul went completely unnoticed by me! hahaha  I have to laugh because I imagine if such a thing happened in real life -- it would never happen, unless I consciously ignored you. But on a forum, such a thing is possible.

    I'll see your charity and raise you humility -- to you it was all a big deal, but I was completely unaware of it.

    And I don't automatically click on all vanity/personal/"look at me" threads. I find them rather annoying, actually. You are by no means the only member to make such a thread, but I dislike all such threads equally.

    I don't even remember why I banned you. (there's another dose of humility for you again -- apparently I don't give you much thought at all).
    Was it about Trump? That's my only guess.

    Again, it's nothing personal, but in my doctrinal, human nature-based well-founded opinion, ALL creators of vanity threads could use more humility. Just like all solid water needs more heat if becoming liquid is the goal. Just a simple fact. And I state it with about as much relish, emotion, or thrill as stating that 2+2=4.

    Wow, so much yak about vanity overlaid with a lot of presumption!  Looks like a lot of projection.  Oh, but how could that be?  We all know Matthew doesn't have an ounce of vanity in himself. :laugh1:

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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #145 on: March 18, 2022, 12:03:30 PM »
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  • It has been over a year since I fell ill and I have been long reflecting on all I appreciate, especially my family and friends. I give public thanks to them. I have mentioned before how humbling it was to discover how many people have been praying and offering Masses. I was shocked how rumors of my illness touched the ears of some school friends with whom I had long lost contact and the extraordinary sleuthing they did to find my family.

    Both my wife and I were hospitalized with the COVID. Luckily my wife was only hospitalized for a week, but she and all our children were knocked down badly, remarkable especially in view of their young ages (clearly our whole family was genetically at high risk from that COVID gene weapon). When my income ceased, my wife filled the breach. Even though she had not fully recovered, she broke her back then, as now, to keep our family afloat.

    Our children have been heroic and perfectly Catholic for the year+ of my illness and ongoing work of recovery. When I awoke from 2 months of coma, the doctors and nurses told me that our children had visited me every day while my wife went to work. For the first month they were not allowed direct entry (not even our pastor was allowed), so they stayed outside praying and peering through the ICU window. After a month, they were allowed inside to visit. When I awoke, I was quadriplegic.  They stayed for hours giving me range-of-motion to move my limbs, minimize contractures and muscle wasting. At first the COVID neuropathy caused hand and foot pain and numbness elsewhere in my entire body. Every day they massaged my hands and feet to reduce my pain. Touched by their kindness, the nurses allowed our children to stay well past the nominal visiting hours, then our children would go home and work past midnight on their schoolwork.

    I learned that they had similarly doted on my wife for her month-long recovery. All the boys took over my head-of-household duties such as weeding, home and auto repair. They used my credentials to log into our online accounts to pay the bills and help our accountant to file our family taxes.  Our daughter shopped, cooked, and cleaned as did the boys. When the doctor finally pulled my PEG feeding tube and I was able to eat, our babies hand fed me treats and meals every day until I could feed myself. In every way they were kind, loving, and well beyond dutiful.

    For the first six months home (July 4-to-New Years), our children drove me to my surgeries, doctors appointments, and physical therapy. At first I couldn't even wipe myself, stand, arise from the commode or shower unassisted. Unflinchingly they helped me with all that. Now that I can walk and drive and have returned to work 1 or 2 days per week, they still are solicitous and offer to help in any way they can. No longer homeschooling, they have excelled in school and sports and have never given any worries to my wife or me.

    Our wonderful children are direct descendants of 3 martyrs for the Faith. Their mother and huge family suffered greatly under Communism and escaping Communism. Undeservedly I have been carried by the graces that flow around them.

    My wife, children, and friends are all an undeserved gift from God. Deo gratias! May He remain so Merciful.

    As I repent my too frequent intemperance, my thanks continue to go to all my family, friends, and even strangers. :pray:


    It's almost the 1 year anniversary of my awaking from coma. It's Lent. I've been reflecting on all for which I am thankful—very thankful.

    We've also seen about a week of the usual suspects trying to drag other families' children into their crosshairs. On the basis of nothing but projecting their own disordered lives on others, they have raved for pages and pages besmirching the parenting in families they do not know.  The pathological response by the usual suspects to my anniversary reflections and my deep thanks throughly demonstrates the schism on CI. That culpable behavior only underscores my profound thanks that my family is nothing like the feverish delusions of the usual suspects.

    As my Lenten reflections remind me of God's graces and mercy, I am perpetually thankful for my wife and our children.

    As head-of-household still, I pray that on his feast St. Joseph and his Holy Family bestow their intercession on behalf of all families.


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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #146 on: March 18, 2022, 04:09:13 PM »
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  • :pray:

    Mark, is waking from a coma like waking from anesthesia? Where one moment you're conscious, but then the next you wake up and it's been a month?
    "Be not therefore solicitous for tomorrow; for the morrow will be solicitous for itself. Sufficient for the day is the evil thereof." [Matt. 6:34]

    "In all thy works remember thy last end, and thou shalt never sin." [Ecclus. 7:40]

    "A holy man continueth in wisdom as the sun: but a fool is changed as the moon." [Ecclus. 27:12]

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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #147 on: March 18, 2022, 04:52:34 PM »
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  • Not for me. It was more like waking from the worst possible nightmares in a brain trying to make sense of the concurrent physical torments of the disease and the treatments.

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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #148 on: March 18, 2022, 04:54:31 PM »
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  • :pray:

    Mark, is waking from a coma like waking from anesthesia? Where one moment you're conscious, but then the next you wake up and it's been a month?
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    Have personal experience with coma, but not two months (wow! My coma was eight days).
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    Typically in a coma you are heavily inundated with drugs that make the mind very cloudy. So it isn't like you wake up from it and wonder where you are and where the anesthesia nurse went. I don't remember the first time I woke from my coma. I remember a few times that *might* have been my first time, but I'd need someone else to tell me for sure.  
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    For the first week out of my coma, there were a lot of hallucinations as I was being weaned off the various medications I was on. It's difficult to distinguish what was real from what was not. 
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    Physically, your body is useless after coma (I saw Mark mention this previously). You have to learn how to do everything again. With just an 8 day coma, it was two months before I could go up a flight of stairs unassisted. 
    "Be kind; do not seek the malicious satisfaction of having discovered an additional enemy to the Church... And, above all, be scrupulously truthful. To all, friends and foes alike, give that serious attention which does not misrepresent any opinion, does not distort any statement, does not mutilate any quotation. We need not fear to serve the cause of Christ less efficiently by putting on His spirit". (Vermeersch, 1913).

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    Re: Please pray for Mark79
    « Reply #149 on: March 18, 2022, 05:10:47 PM »
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  • Some similarities to yours, Mithrandylan.

    While in coma my mind—or what was left of my mind at that time—was trying to make sense of the things that I later learned were happening to my body.  For example, to assist my oxygenation I was "proned" (bolted to a ferris-like wheel and rotated) while on a trachesostomy tube and ventilator. I was told I was quite feverish. While that was going on I had a never-ending nightmare of being staked out unable to cry out for help, all four limbs tied under a merciless sun cooking me voiceless.

    You can imagine then—I'd rather not describe—the nightmares that accompanied the worse medical procedures.