You might be looking in the wrong places.

No kidding.

The situation with "finding a good woman" mirrors the "finding a good job" situation.

Not quite. When you have a job you can be happy that you can earn a descent wage even if you do not personally like the work. When you are finding a woman to marry if you have views that clash to where it cuases disruption in the household you might as well get a divorce since the marriage will not work out and you will hate eachother and be at eachother's throats. When it comes to views the woman should at least mirror the man's in some way so that she will not openly oppose him in front of the children.

But the situation is very similar. Most people still manage to make a living. 25% unemployment still means 75% employment! Trying to be one of the guys that has a job. Try to be the most eligible bachelor, so that when a nice Trad lady shows up, you're the first one she's interested in.

I have a job thank you. My problem is the mentality these days that one must have a good job and a place in the suburbs to start a family. What a truly miserable mentality. If one can move up one should however the government has a responsibility to make sure businesses pay a living wage to heads of household, the higher pay depending on the amount of children.

Trad chapels are filled with young families. Has the sound of babies crying disappeared from most Trad chapels? I don't think it has. Marriages are performed all the time in the various Trad groups.

That's particularly meaningless. To borrow another phrase: quality over quantity.

You need to make sure that you're as equipped as possible to be one of those guys getting married. There's a saying I'm very fond of: Winners make their own luck.

So wait a minute it's up to the guy to make sure he's making a middle-class income? That's putting a lot of burden on the man and really none on the woman, as if she's along for the ride. Sacrifices in marriage are two-fold. If you want to put so much on the man then let's say this about the woman, she should know how to cook, do a good cleaning of the house, have a natural maternal instinct, know how to make kids feel well when they're sick, not look for a career, safeguard the child's welfare, etc.

For instance a lot of people like to blame men as well about abortion but it is well known that some women love abortion and don't want the father to have any say on whether they keep the child.

For the record I do not play video games, as I am a man not a boy.

For the record I also do not watch filthy Hollywood movies.

Even then however instead of blaming "men" for it per se isn't it the responsibility of the government to regulate the popular culture?