If Pius XII taught BoD in an allocution that is meant for the whole Church, then according to the Dimonds logic, Pius wouldn't be pope.
OK, but one does't have to accept the Dimonds' premises to make an objective assessment of the situation. BoD per se is certainly not heresy, and it's an opinion that's long been tolerated by the Church, but that also doesn't make it true. I've long disagreed with the Dimonds' exaggeration of the theological note regarding BoD. BoD has always been speculation and theory. There's no evidence of its having been divinely revealed, as the majority of Church Fathers rejected it, and I've never seen a single argument made that indicates BoD was implicitly revealed, i.e. that it proceeds implicitly and necessarily from premises that were revealed ... the only two ways we have to determine the contents of the Deposit of Revelation (unless you're a Modernist who believes that the Church can come to an "awareness" of new revealed truths over time). In fact, the only even quasi-theological argument I've seen for BoD is from St. Thomas, and the others simply have a house of cards of "authority" leading back to St. Augustine (who later rejected BoD and issued some of the most anti-BoD statements in existence). St. Thomas stated that Sacraments have a visible aspect and an invisible, but did not prove that the two were separable in the case of Baptism. They most certainly are not in Holy Orders or Confirmation ... ironically, the other two Sacraments that confer a character.
So the mistake made by the Dimonds is in believing that if they can put together a formally valid syllogism that consists of even a single Revealed Premise, that makes the conclusion tantamount to being revealed. First of all, both premises must be revealed, as the strength of a conclusion can only be as strong as its weakest premise
peiorem partem sequitur conclusio, but even if both presmies are revealed, the construction of the argument itself is subject to human error. Just because it's formally valid doesn't mean that some distinction wasn't missed.
By way of example:
MAJOR: the Sacrament of Baptism is necessary for salvation,
de fide, taught solemnly by Trent.
MINOR: BoD means that the Sacrament of Baptism is not necessary for salvation [their assertion].
CONCLUSION: BoD is heretical because it rejects the dogma in the MAJOR.
While the MAJOR is most certainly dogma and denying it would be heresy, the issue is with their Minor, their assertion that BoD means the Sacrament of Baptism is not necessary for salvation. I doubt that St. Robert Bellarmine would have been so obtuse as to not see such a glaring contradiction of dogma.
No, people could reject the CONCLUSION because they dispute the MINOR, since they assert that even in the case of BoD, the Sacrament remains necessary, and the "necessity" taught by Trent doesn't mean the necessity of actual reception, but that in BoD, the Sacrament remained the instrumental cause of justification, i.e. there could be no BAPTISM of Desire without a Sacrament of Baptism TO Desire. I think it's weak, but it's NOT heresy to reject their MINOR.
Now, for all intents and purposes, the vast majority of those who hold BoD DO in fact reject the necessity of the Sacrament. You'll notice that St. Robert Bellarmine was very careful to avoid stating that the catechumen could be saved WITHOUT the Sacrament, which he knew would be heretical. Instead, he says that those saved by so-called "BoD" receive the Sacrament
in voto, i.e. holds that BoD is an alternative mode of receiving the Sacrament apart from having water poured on your head. Again, there's no proof for this. For every argument in its favor, I find dozens of arguments against it.