For men and women to behave in a mature manner, they need to turn to Jesus. Usually, the young learn much from the home with a mother and father. Unfortunately, society has destroyed the family. These young people are being raised by secular strangers starting with daycare. The schools and universities have poisoned them with communism. Many have poor hygiene skills. They don’t have common sense. Many can’t boil an egg.
Many young people are on anti depressants and all kinds of meds too.
When you go looking for wife or husband, make sure they have a mother and father who have a good Catholic marriage.