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Offline MMagdala

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« Reply #15 on: June 21, 2016, 01:44:24 PM »
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  • Quote from: Last Tradhican
    The OP is a man. Don't change the subject to "temptations of women".


    Dozens of OP's on CI are men.  The title of the thread was not exclusive to men, so including women is not "changing the subject," unless you believe, erroneously, that we women are not tempted to impurity.  We are.  It's just that women, overall, are less honest about that publicly than men, overall, are.

    When there are other threads opened by men, which similarly do not, in the Original Post or in the title of the thread, reserve the replies to men only, do you believe that women should be prohibited from replying on the thread, due to the gender of the OP?  Let's ask Matthew, shall we?

    Matthew, what is your policy regarding men who open threads of universal topics on the mixed-gender forums and do not ask for male-only replies?  Should we women be prohibited from replying?


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    « Reply #16 on: June 21, 2016, 01:55:43 PM »
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  • Madam, you should not be posting advice to men. Moreover, what you are attempting to post in a PUBLIC forum is unladylike, and frankly,  revolting to me. You should keep it to yourself, your husband, or your spiritual director.

    But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to use authority over the man: but to be in silence. (1Tim 2:12)

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    For there shall arise false Christs and false prophets, and shall show great signs and wonders, insomuch as to deceive (if possible) even the elect. Mat 24:24


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    « Reply #17 on: June 21, 2016, 03:51:29 PM »
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  • The face of St. Therese in repose helped me. Perfect beauty that defies all attempts to possess it. This face is resplendent with the Love of God.



    Fortuna finem habet.

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    « Reply #18 on: June 21, 2016, 04:01:51 PM »
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  • Quote from: GiuseppeMichelePoli
    What are the best and most effective methods for conquering the sin of lust and masturbation, pornography, impure thoughts, etc?


    Ask Our Blessed Mother to allow you to see the devils tempting you or have a vision of Hell.

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    « Reply #19 on: June 21, 2016, 05:12:36 PM »
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    Masturbation is a mortal sin making one worthy of Hell. What kind of advice is that? Learn your Faith.


    No it's not. I can't believe I got 9 thumbs down there.
    I am a good poster. That was ridiculous, although I realize
    how what I said could have been misconstrued, which it was.

    Masturbation is not often a cardinal sin.


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    « Reply #20 on: June 21, 2016, 05:41:37 PM »
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    Quote from: Maximus33

    Masturbation impure touching is a mortal sin making one worthy of Hell. What kind of advice is that? Learn your Faith.


    No it's not. I can't believe I got 9 thumbs down there.
    I am a good poster. That was ridiculous, although I realize
    how what I said could have been misconstrued, which it was.

    Masturbation impure touching is not often a cardinal sin.




    He knowing that the children should not be his, when he went in to his brother's wife, spilled his seed upon the ground, lest children should be born in his brother's name. And therefore the Lord slew him, because he did a detestable thing. (Genensis 39:9).
    The Vatican II church - Assisting Souls to Hell Since 1962

    For there shall arise false Christs and false prophets, and shall show great signs and wonders, insomuch as to deceive (if possible) even the elect. Mat 24:24

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    « Reply #21 on: June 21, 2016, 09:34:47 PM »
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    Quote from: Maximus33

    Masturbation is a mortal sin making one worthy of Hell. What kind of advice is that? Learn your Faith.


    No it's not. I can't believe I got 9 thumbs down there.
    I am a good poster. That was ridiculous, although I realize
    how what I said could have been misconstrued, which it was.

    Masturbation is not often a cardinal sin.


    Say it wasn't a cardinal sin, its still a mortal sin. This is basic Catholic moral teaching. Look in any true Catholic manual. Ask any traditional priest.

    My friend, just please be aware that it is a mortal sin.

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    « Reply #22 on: June 21, 2016, 09:39:49 PM »
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    Quote from: GiuseppeMichelePoli
    What are the best and most effective methods for conquering the sin of lust and masturbation, pornography, impure thoughts, etc?


    Realize (and always remember) that you can't hide from God, He can see you, so can your guardian angel. One has to forget God exists to self abuse themselves, it's a kin to doing it in front of your parents, while thinking you are invisible.

    I don't like the use of the word "m", Catholics should use language that can be spoken around anyone (mixed company, younger men, children), use impure touching, abuse oneself. Another example, Sodomites are impure men.  


    Yeah I agree, M is a vulgar word. Unless in the Confessional, it is better to use some other word or phrase.


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    « Reply #23 on: June 21, 2016, 10:23:26 PM »
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    Masturbation is not often a cardinal sin.

    I just wanted to say that I also believe that self-abuse is a mortal sin and I also downthumbed your post because I thought it was bad advice.
    R.I.P.
    Please pray for the repose of my soul.

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    « Reply #24 on: June 21, 2016, 11:45:51 PM »
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  • Snowball, you have no idea what you are talking about and your ignorance is spreading lies and is an invitation to sin.

    Since you are spreading delusion and error in this way, you are a prime candidate for banning.

    Tradhican, get over it. The ladies speak wisely and know what they are talking about.

    There is a men only forum.  If that is what the OP wanted he should have used that.

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    « Reply #25 on: June 22, 2016, 08:52:26 AM »
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  • Yeah snowball, all forms of sɛҳuąƖ activity outside of marriage are mortally sinful except for nocturnal emissions. Even the thought alone is mortal if sufficiently entertained... even if only for a second!

    With that in mind, my only other suggestion for the OP outside some of the very good meditations and prayers that have been suggested here is this: use the Sign of the Cross whenever an impure thought or memory enters into your mind. It's vital to catch them as soon as we are aware of them and for young men this can be many, many times in one day. The Sign of the Cross is quick and easy to do and will be able to match the pace of any temptation that bears down on you. Let the Cross do the work and any other pious image you can produce in your mind's eye.
    Fortuna finem habet.


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    Re: Most effective methods for conquering the sin of lust
    « Reply #26 on: October 20, 2017, 07:20:17 AM »
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  • I just wanted to say that I also believe that self-abuse is a mortal sin and I also downthumbed your post because I thought it was bad advice.
    I guess that it's not always a mortal sin...
    Although best to avoid falling in it.
    Being sometimes a victim of this sin, do you think it is ALWAYS a mortal sin? Or there can be circuмstances when it's a venial sin?

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    « Reply #27 on: October 20, 2017, 06:58:40 PM »
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  • This is my advice it works for ALL sin, I can guarantee it.

    Meditate on the passion of Christ, imagine His Precious Blood flowing from His Body, imagine His suffering of His knowledge, how He felt every pain before it happened to Him.  Nothing was held back, by that I mean, He felt it without any narcotic to help Him, He did not deceive us in any way by willing the pain would not be so bad.  He could have with a wink of His eye willed His executioners to suffer or drop like a fly, but He did not.

    Put yourself in His place through that entire night, of Holy Thursday, His being dragged about from judge to judge knowing all along His fate.  Can you just imagine His suffering on Good Friday, think of the entire passion.  

    If you spend a little time on this daily, you will not so much as tell a lie.
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    That's good advice. And if that is what works for you, great. However, if a reader tries that and finds it to be inadequate for whatever reason, I have another method that might be worth trying out.
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    Sometimes a VARIETY of weapons wins the battle.
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    Memorize and at times of trial repeat the Scripture verse, St. Luke 1:51 ...
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    He hath shewed might in his arm: he hath scattered the proud in the conceit of their heart.
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    If you like, you can replace "shewed" with "shown." The meaning of this sentence is understood more completely in context of the Magnificat:
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    46] And Mary said: My soul doth magnify the Lord. [47] And my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Saviour. [48] Because he hath regarded the humility of his handmaid; for behold from henceforth all generations shall call me blessed. [49] Because he that is mighty, hath done great things to me; and holy is his name. [50] And his mercy is from generation unto generations, to them that fear him.
    [48] "Shall call me blessed": These words are a prediction of that honour which the church in all ages should pay to the Blessed Virgin. Let Protestants examine whether they are any way concerned in this prophecy.
    [51] He hath shewed might in his arm: he hath scattered the proud in the conceit of their heart. [52] He hath put down the mighty from their seat, and hath exalted the humble. [53] He hath filled the hungry with good things; and the rich he hath sent empty away. [54] He hath received Israel his servant, being mindful of his mercy:[55] As he spoke to our fathers, to Abraham and to his seed for ever.
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    Traditionally, the Church adds a doxology to the end of this prayer, as you find in your missal for use on Holy Saturday.
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    On numerous occasions when I had at one time found every trick in the book to be inadequate, the mere vocal utterance of this Luke 1:51 verse was found to instantly route the demons and send them fleeing into the wilderness from whence they had come.
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    Problem solved.
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    Oh, one more thing. 
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    Regarding those who are wont to worry whether "m___" is perhaps, maybe, sort of, not always a mortal sin, all I can say is, A) They've been listening to a Jesuit talking about it somewhere, or B) They have not tried the daily recitation of Our Lady's Magnificat together with the firm intention to overcome the sin of impurity.
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    Re: Most effective methods for conquering the sin of lust
    « Reply #28 on: October 20, 2017, 07:15:47 PM »
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    "But how am I going to remember Luke 1:51?" you might ask. 
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    Anyone who suffers from the persistent sin of impurity will find it very easy to remember the number 1:51 ...
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    « Reply #29 on: October 20, 2017, 07:52:01 PM »
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  • The "Three Hail Marys" devotion. 

    Sorted my pagan patooty right out quick, fast, and in a hurry. 

    Deo gratias et Mariae.
    "Lord, have mercy".