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« Reply #15 on: May 06, 2011, 11:06:05 AM »
It is hard to buy t-tops--not the underwear kind-- for use underblouses or blazers that are not seriously scooped out or v-necked. Now I found some that were up to the clavicle without being crew and they are boat-neck showing slightly for shoulder profile.  :facepalm:

It says on the modesty site that modesty should be maintained if the cover is removed (blazer, sweater, shawl) but that is very difficult.
I had worn a scarf once when I felt that a top was too low (clavicles peeking out). Intuitively that seems like it would be okay.
Or using the lace or plain collared dickies (they are cheap) and wearing them under a scoop neck.
In the winter, I never leave home without my turtle-neck.

modest dress for women
« Reply #16 on: May 10, 2011, 01:21:43 PM »
I think simple jewelry is acceptable.   Not recommended necessarily, but allowable if moderate and discreet.

However, large, dangling earrings, or noisy "charm" bracelets, or layered necklaces (and particularly those bright, chunky necklaces that are derived from tropical or African locales ... I personally find "too much" for any circuмstance .. and definitely not at church!)

Appropriate clothing would consist of non-tight fitting skirt or dress, falling below the knee, most of the chest should be covered, just under collar bone acceptable, nothing sheer, and avoid bright colors or "busy" patterns.  

Frankly, for me, red really bothers me.  It's just too intense, too "look at me!"  I prefer subdued colors, pastels, pale types, either no pattern or a very subtle pattern.  I don't like to wear more than 2 inch heels .. and even at that, I rarely do.  

As was discussed in a previous thread: the wearing of high heels or high heeled boots is inappropriate.  I had been looking at boots for some years and was returning again and again to low heeled riding boots.  I realized then that the pointed toe, high heeled boots were immodest, even "sexy" in themselves, regardless of whether a woman wore a longer skirt and was covered everywhere else.  

I am so tired of seeing black everywhere!  At Mass a couple of weeks ago, the children who were receiving First Communion were all dressed in white.  Their mothers?  Most in black.  Black pants, scoop necked tops.

I've been seeing more and more black on little girls too.  Last week, a darling little girl was allowed to come to Mass wearing a fuschia ("hot pink) tutu and a BLACK LEATHER JACKET!   :shocked:

Needless to say it was both ugly and inappropriate.

Maybe all the black is because we're in mourning for the death of our culture? :sad:



modest dress for women
« Reply #17 on: May 10, 2011, 01:26:10 PM »
Quote from: shin
Quote from: MrsZ

Light, unobtrusive makeup is acceptable.  It's not prohibited or required ... just allowed and just like everything else should be subtle and moderate.

I follow what the saints teach, so. . . No makeup.


I respect your point of view and your decision to not wear makeup yourself.  There is a significant difference between wearing light, natural looking makeup and looking "made up." While being inspired by the saints is a good and wholesome practice for the most part, their opinions are not infallible,  nor are the faithful obligated to imitate them in their mortifications or their opinions.

I believe that all saints who discussed "painting" were living in centuries past when only women of ill reputation were known to wear (garish, bold and vulgar) face paint.

That is not the situation today.

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« Reply #18 on: May 10, 2011, 06:15:26 PM »
Me neither... I don't wear makeup. The only thing I wear at Mass is the earings my mother gave me.. I never wanted to wear that but somehow she wants me to use it there and so I do - in due respect to her.

Also, most of my churchmates don't wear makeup as well, but few have manicures on.  :facepalm:

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« Reply #19 on: May 10, 2011, 08:19:34 PM »
Nice to see you again, Joan!

Yeah, I don't think make-up is at all necessary at Mass.