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Modern women want to have their cake AND eat it too
« Reply #10 on: July 21, 2011, 01:40:17 AM »
Quote from: Matthew
Do you know any modern women who seem to want all the benefits of old-fashioned values/morals, but want things that old-fashioned women would never have sought, such as career, equal power in marriage, etc.?

I've actually met women who seem old-fashioned in some ways -- but they are completely modern in other ways.

It makes you wonder, does a man even exist for them? And how could he -- he'd be a walking contradiction.  A square circle.



Thread title: Modern women want to have their cake AND eat it too

My Reponse: They want to but cannot.

That's the sad thing about a lot of girls and women today. It is like the issue of the permanent diaconate in a sense. It is difficult to live two vocations, if possible, without lacking in both or either of them.

A woman then desires to have both the married and, in a certain sense, the single life. It is hard to not be lacking in either or both.

I remember one of the interviews with Bishop Williamson, though, where he talks about how even though a woman may have had a career, she can apply her knowledge and experience to raising her children and taking care of a household. The best thing for many single women today then is to find a husband, as Bp. Williamson also put forth.

I think someone on the forum maybe recently pointed out how men attract what they are too, and so the men need to improve themselves on the natural level and let the grace of God work in them to build on nature.

Modern women want to have their cake AND eat it too
« Reply #11 on: July 21, 2011, 09:07:16 AM »
I do not think that a woman working outside the home is in the same class as woman who rejects the authority of her husband.  There may be cases where financial necessity forces a woman to have an outside job.  It could be what her husband wants her to do.

But the headship of the husband is an important spiritual reality that is at the core of marriage.  


Modern women want to have their cake AND eat it too
« Reply #12 on: July 21, 2011, 08:18:14 PM »
A woman who works outside the home, truly undermines her husband by usurping his role, and lacks trust in him.

As a wife, if you want things to go well in your marriage, you will not take his role as the provider on yourself. This makes him feel like less of a man.

Modern women want to have their cake AND eat it too
« Reply #13 on: July 21, 2011, 08:49:43 PM »
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A woman who works outside the home, truly undermines her husband by usurping his role, and lacks trust in him.

As a wife, if you want things to go well in your marriage, you will not take his role as the provider on yourself. This makes him feel like less of a man.


What if the husband tells her to get a job?  Should she go against his authority?

Modern women want to have their cake AND eat it too
« Reply #14 on: July 21, 2011, 09:18:55 PM »
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Quote from: parentsfortruth
A woman who works outside the home, truly undermines her husband by usurping his role, and lacks trust in him.

As a wife, if you want things to go well in your marriage, you will not take his role as the provider on yourself. This makes him feel like less of a man.


What if the husband tells her to get a job?  Should she go against his authority?


This would be a poor reflection on him. Is this person hypothetical? Are these hypothetical people impoverished?