I've been thinking about this some more and I am leaning toward the view that Catholics should not even use the word "misogyny". It is a word, like "antisemitism" and "homophobia," which has been coined/appropriated to promote an anti-Catholic agenda. The word "misogyny" is, in recent times, primarily used to support the feminist view of the male-female relationship as a variation of Marxist class warfare. It is so important to resist that view that we need to avoid its typical terminology.
Feminism trains women to think of men as the enemy - violent, dangerous, threatening. For me, as a woman, I take a stand against feminism by consciously thinking well of men. This comes very easily for me, since I am married to a very good man and he is the man whom I know best.
One reason I don't have problems with the idea of the husband's authority is that I have complete trust that my husband would never misuse it. We have been married for 37 years and he has shown himself to consistently put my welfare before his own comfort and convenience. I trust him with the authority to command my obedience. I trust him with the right to the marriage debt. I would trust him, if we lived in a society that accepted a husband's right to use corporal punishment (as our ancestors in the Faith did), to use that right justly. I would trust him to give his life to save mine, if such a situation were to arise.
And my understanding of men is based on my husband. He is not simply an individual but the type through which I view men in general. I expect men, especially trad men, normally to be good people. I realize that there are exceptions. I know that there are men who do bad things. But they do these things, not because it is usual for male persons, but because it is a reflection of the fallen human condition.
It is very natural for me to extend my positive feelings about my husband toward men in general. I would probably do it to some extent without even thinking about it. However, I also make a conscious decision to think this way because I see it as a way of resisting feminism.