I'm not sure why the video got three downthumbs. Is it because it's a protestant pastor?
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Good luck finding that wisdom from anybody else nowadays. This is a problem very unique to today, and this man had quite a bit of practical advice which he was giving as someone who has professionally counseled married couples, and it all seemed very sound to me-- nothing he had to say was "based in religion" but much more in basic human psychology and the times we find ourselves in.
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He seemed to recommend a prenup at the beginning (like a lot of fiery black speakers, he doesn't always conclude his points). One might find that objectionable. I'm not entirely sure. What I would think is that if you're marrying someone and you feel that there's any reason at all to get a prenup, then you probably shouldn't marry them. If you do get a prenup I don't think it disturbs the validity or lawfulness of the marriage, unless it spells out a clear and decisive lack of intent to marry.
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Anyways. Thought it was a good video. Prayers for all the single men out there.