[sedetrad]

Women are dressed so poorly nowadays, that I find it very "attractive" when I see a modestly or properly dressed woman. The naked bikini thing doesn't do it for me anymore as it is everywhere. It is no longer alluring. What I am writing sounds crazy, but a well dressed Catholic woman objectively "looks" attractive to right ordered men.

Someone mentioned women in gypsy dresses. I find them modest and very attractive on ladies.

Does the above make sense?

[sedetrad]

I was watching an old Sherlock Holmes episode made by Granada TV in 1986 with Jeremy Brett as Holmes and the lady in the episode looked stunning in her elegant and modest gown.

[sedetrad]

I live at the beach so, I am not surrounded by much modesty.

[Matthew]

I agree -- women with tons of makeup, who dress like whores, etc. are repulsive to me, because of the ugliness of their soul and lack of virtue.

Of course all men need to get good at custody of the eyes, but I think it's true that some women are more "dangerous" than others for a given man.

For me, the only time I ever feel the need to "watch myself" is when I encounter a women that actually LOOKS and ACTS like a lady, which is pretty rare these days.

Long hair, long skirt/dress, minimal makeup, feminine bearing, etc.

[Nylndech]

I know two very attractive girls my age who always wear long skirts and modest blouses.

They are both from some sort of survivalist Christian family where they learn to survive in the wilderness after major disasters.  Their father is their preacher.

Oh well.

[John Grace]

I know two very attractive girls my age who always wear long skirts and modest blouses.

They are both from some sort of survivalist Christian family where they learn to survive in the wilderness after major disasters.  Their father is their preacher.

Oh well.

Keep in contact with the family.

[sedetrad]

For me, the only time I ever feel the need to "watch myself" is when I encounter a women that actually LOOKS and ACTS like a lady, which is pretty rare these days.

Long hair, long skirt/dress, minimal makeup, feminine bearing, etc.

The above is very true for me. The modest woman has become more dangerous to me than the improperly dressed woman. Thank you for writing it so well.

[Neil Obstat]

Women enjoy hearing compliments.

Men tend to think someone flattering them is trying to con them into something.

When I see a woman modestly dressed, I am inclined to tell her she looks
attractive, but it's not easy to say that without seeming to be improper, or forward.

It makes it easier when the woman has daughters with her, who are also
dressed modestly, because I can mention to the mother that I appreciate the
appearance of the girls. And then, in parting, say, "and the same goes for yourself."

I think that in today's situation, women who make the effort to cover themselves
ought to be told they succeeded in making a good impression, but you don't
always have to be obvious. You can respectfully hold the door open, or step
aside on a walkway. In the old days, men would remove their hat and perhaps
bow to a lady. These things are forgotten now, after women's liberation etc.

Overall, it seems to me that you have your priorities mistaken if you are
looking for a good feeling as the reason for appreciating women dressed
modestly. We ought to recognize that it is PROPER and APPROPRIATE for
women to do so, regardless of how it makes a man FEEL.

Our behavior should be based on right reason, not on feelings!!

[ggreg]

To be perfectly honest, I still find hot women in bikini's very attractive, which is why I tend to avoid hanging around the places where they are.  As much as is practical anyways as they tend to pop up in parks, shopping malls and even on public transport in the summertime.

I'm glad you've managed to conquer your lust for bikini babes and got it restricted now only to well dressed virtuous modest but classically stylish women.

You certainly have a great deal less temptation to deal with than I and the rest of the male species and that is a blessing for you.

[sedetrad]

To be perfectly honest, I still find hot women in bikini's very attractive, which is why I tend to avoid hanging around the places where they are.  As much as is practical anyways as they tend to pop up in parks, shopping malls and even on public transport in the summertime.

I'm glad you've managed to conquer your lust for bikini babes and got it restricted now only to well dressed virtuous modest but classically stylish women.

You certainly have a great deal less temptation to deal with than I and the rest of the male species and that is a blessing for you.

I find that I don't have the lust for the bikini babes anymore. I can still find them attractive, but I don't go nuts over them. They are everywhere for me.

[Nylndech]

I also dislike skimpy clothing and find it unattractive.

I find women who dress in modest feminine clothing to be very attractive.

I also prefer seeing them in modest skirts or dresses over pants.

[Capt McQuigg]

We should pray for women who feel compelled to dress immodestly - they are spiritually sick.

[alaric]

I live at the beach so, I am not surrounded by much modesty.

You live at the beach do you........someone has the good life.

Anyway, just remember that women in the West are becoming less and less feminine these days the way they dress, talk and carry themselves. Feminism has actually had the adverse effect on most females who embrace it.

[alaric]

We should pray for women who feel compelled to dress immodestly - they are spiritually sick.

If men actually ran this country we would do more than just pray. We need some kind of Iran-style dress code enforcement laws in this culture to keep people in check and I don't mean just the women, how many male mental midgets do we see walking around with their pants offensively hanging halfway down their butts to insult anyone in their presence.

This gutter and ghetto mentality needs to be strictly legislated.

[Marcelino]

We should pray for women who feel compelled to dress immodestly - they are spiritually sick.

If men actually ran this country we would do more than just pray. We need some kind of Iran-style dress code enforcement laws in this culture to keep people in check and I don't mean just the women, how many male mental midgets do we see walking around with their pants offensively hanging halfway down their butts to insult anyone in their presence.

This gutter and ghetto mentality needs to be strictly legislated.

Everybody's just "aping" what they see on t.v.  Mostly, I think, you gotta crack down on the media.  I think that's the biggest source of bad dressing habits.