If men and women could be friends, it may be mainly on the supernatural level, but permanently, generally speaking, on the natural level.
Often in my online communications with women, there is usually a lack of or not much reciprocation with a question about me or anything for that matter.
Feminism does have a lot to do with it all indeed. The best can become the worst. So if women can trump men in humility and obedience in following the example of Our Lady, they can easily devolve to vanity and indecency and lack of respect in even just mere ordinary human interaction.
A good woman respects men and also other women, and she truly has the virtues of obedience and purity or at least works to aspire to virtue.