God has Graces for anyone, "might" they accept. this is the catch, so to say. The book, The True Story of Vatican Council, by Cardinal Manning is a very good read. He explains, defines, the Graces/Gifts of the Holy Ghost, "might" the Pope....
After Pope Leo XIII experienced Satan and Christ have an encounter, Satan wanting more powers and time. Christ said, I will permit you have more time and powers. I can do so much more, says Christ. (1874) So, Pope Leo XIII and Cardinal Manning and magestrium had Vatican I Council Infallibility of Pope.
It was discussed, that nomination and election of pope is a form of infallibility. BUT can an elected Pope, go wrong in his pontificate? answer is yes. Some people have "myth" or opinion that the pope has the Holy Ghost , like the pope can do not wrong. BUT Cardinal Manning and magestrium decided on using the word "might" about 9 times in the definition of Infalllibility.
When you address your family and others, by example and etc. that is Graces for these people. Then Might they take on these Graces. All Free Will which is the Love of God. It is a pity. Pity was the word used by Pius VII, when Napoleon took him on, exiled the Pope. Napoleon said to Pope Pius VII, "you hate me". And the Pope replied, "No, I pity you". Did Napoleon take on these Graces?