Newbie5- I will offer my prayers for you and your situation today. I would like to say, however, that you receive counseling from your Father confessor, first and foremost, and also your family- to include your husband, sister, mother, cousin, etc. Perhaps discussing in detail with your husband your feelings would be good, instead of keeping quiet. It seems you two were in love, so he must love you- explain what you are feeling, and I'm sure he would change.