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Offline Miser Peccator

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Making Amends In Relationships
« on: April 13, 2021, 11:31:55 PM »
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  • I don't believe I've seen much in Catholic sources about apologizing or asking forgiveness of each other.

    Especially with husbands and wives but in other relationships this seems so important.

    I've seen a lot about asking God's forgiveness of course, but I can't recall much of anything in the sermons I've heard or catechisms about going and asking forgiveness of one's spouse or children or parents.

    Perhaps I just can't recall it...have you seen much on this?
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    Re: Making Amends In Relationships
    « Reply #1 on: April 14, 2021, 12:33:09 AM »
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  • Matthew 5: 23 : If therefore thou offer thy gift at the altar, and there thou remember that thy brother hath any thing against thee; [24] Leave there thy offering before the altar, and go first to be reconciled to thy brother: and then coming thou shalt offer thy gift. (Sermon on the Mount)
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    Re: Making Amends In Relationships
    « Reply #2 on: April 14, 2021, 12:44:58 AM »
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  • Matthew 5: 23 : If therefore thou offer thy gift at the altar, and there thou remember that thy brother hath any thing against thee; [24] Leave there thy offering before the altar, and go first to be reconciled to thy brother: and then coming thou shalt offer thy gift. (Sermon on the Mount)
    Yes, thank you.  I thought of that passage as well.
    However, I have never heard a priest tell the husbands or wives to apologize or better yet to ask the other forgiveness nor have I seen it in any catechism that I can remember.
    I exposed AB Vigano's public meetings with Crowleyan Satanist Dugin so I ask protection on myself family friends priest, under the Blood of Jesus Christ and mantle of the Blessed Virgin Mary! If harm comes to any of us may that embolden the faithful to speak out all the more so Catholics are not deceived.



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    Re: Making Amends In Relationships
    « Reply #3 on: April 14, 2021, 01:48:01 AM »
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  • I don't believe I've seen much in Catholic sources about apologizing or asking forgiveness of each other.

    Especially with husbands and wives but in other relationships this seems so important.

    I've seen a lot about asking God's forgiveness of course, but I can't recall much of anything in the sermons I've heard or catechisms about going and asking forgiveness of one's spouse or children or parents.

    Perhaps I just can't recall it...have you seen much on this?
    This I do as well because the truth about life is that we all know a lot of dead people. 
    You don't know when they won't be here, so it's best to still ask forgiveness and be cordial with people while you have the time to.
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    Re: Making Amends In Relationships
    « Reply #4 on: April 14, 2021, 06:37:14 AM »
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  • I don't know that I have heard a sermon specifically on this, but I suspect that it may have been  addressed in sermons dealing primarily with humility and/or charity.  It also may have been addressed in sermons dealing with God's forgiveness of sins.
    For there shall arise false Christs and false prophets, and shall shew great signs and wonders, insomuch as to deceive (if possible) even the elect. (Matthew 24:24)


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    Re: Making Amends In Relationships
    « Reply #5 on: April 14, 2021, 11:10:08 AM »
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  • I've often tried to make peace in my family by apologizing even when I knew that I wasn't wrong in the arguement or confrontation, just for peace and the sake of the relationships. I'm sorry I did that because it became expected that I was always in the wrong and would always apologize for it. It made the dynamics of the relationships intolerable and further solidified (their) wrong opinions and actions. 
    I forgive now but I don't give in- needless to say I don't speak with a few people in my family( they don't speak with me either). I spoke with my priest and he said to just let it ( them ) go and pray for them, which I do. Of course I don't want it to be this way but Jesus said to expect the divisions.