Aquinas says married women are absolutely allowed to dress themselves up for their husbands, even and including for the purposes of being more sɛҳuąƖly desirable. Unmarried women are not allowed to desire to invite lust in the hearts of others (obviously, I think) but that adornment for other reasons, although possibly sinful, is not necessarily so.
Betting OP is between the ages of 17-25, single male, converted or reverted within the last year. That's the profile for people who presume to lecture others on this know and of stuff.