I beg to differ with the opinion that many women go to college only to find their future spouse.
In our changing society it is often difficult to find a good Catholic partner and I certainly haven't encountered any likely candidates during my time at university. Rather, I embarked upon an academically-rewarding enterprise to further my education, expand my ability to think and write in a critical, well-informed manner and to secure my future prospects for when I enter my chosen career.
It is unfortunate that certain elements of the SSPX (speaking as a long-term supporter) consider further education for women to be a "time-killer" before said women become "SAHMs." This is a view I have come across both at my old alma mater and through discussion with certain aquaintences who hold the position (promulgated, in part, by Bishop Williamson) that women are better off at home learning how to run a household and that women attending university is at best filling in time and at worst a distraction to the men at the institutions.
For those women who find themselves engaged in the single life, either through choice or through lack of a desirable spouse, their duty is to provide for themselves rather than be a burden on their families. A well-educated, well-qualified woman will have more options open to her than one who has only completed a basic education program. Furthermore, the world is in desperate need of Catholic professionals, and for a women to pass up the chance to become such because she supposes that she will become a wife and mother while young results in a lost opportunity.
It seems to me that the best course of action for a woman to take would be to become as highly qualified as her circuмstances allow. Far better to have the option of giving up a good career to become a mum than to have neither a husband nor a career...
I love the information though Joan :smile: I totally agree with all the points there. Once the adolescent ideals of romance give way to realism, the critera becomes far more Christ-centric.