This is a tough one. Of course, long run, she'd get bored of the NO also. That was the big selling point of the NOM, but if you ever see the youth at a NOM, they look bored out of their minds, and it shows in their facial expressions and body language.
Agreed. 100%! But, initially it won her over to baby Jesus. She even used to say that He is stronger than any superhero. She went to bed praying to him, spontaneously, as the priest had recommended. In calss, in the car, etc. she would spontaneously sing church songs. In short, it worked.
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There is psychology at play with children, where positive reinforcement helps. So, for instance, after Mass every Sunday, take them out for a treat, a really nice treat. They will gradually come to associate the pleasantness of the treat with being at Mass, and therefore start to associate those pleasant thoughts with the Mass.
We do. I even went as far as buying toys, not only ice cream, candies and sweets.
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Kids at that age don't profoundly grasp things, so you have to resort to little psychological tricks like that.
I have no moral qualms in using psychological tricks, as it is for her good.
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In fact, I was hoping in more psychological tricks and, perhaps, professional (psychologist) advice... ?
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I called a child behaviouralist who is also a friend and he advised, very, very strongly, to
not force her, until she understands more complex concepts, less I risk obtaining the opposite reaction.
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Last Sunday my wife decided to bring along colouring books (recommended here) and sticker books, with Catholic and Biblical themes. "Superheroes of the Bible", etc.. This worked as she got busy and did not cry. The priest (SSPX) did not object, outright, but was clearly unhappy.
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God loves children and I cannot see how her behaviour would be disrespectful as she has no intent or even understanding. My concern is that I, as father, could be disrespecting the Sacrifice as I do have understanding, if not intent...
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Is it wrong to let four year old kids colour books at the back during Mass?
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Mothers, out there? Any advice?