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Offline Friedrich N

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Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
« on: March 28, 2024, 09:15:11 PM »
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  • Of the things you've pledged yourself to do during this year's Lent, are there any you plan on maintaining beyond Holy Saturday?

    For me, I'll continue to abstain from sweets except on Sundays. It's not only a mortification that's personally hard and thus effective, but has shown itself very beneficial to my health.


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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #1 on: March 29, 2024, 07:55:02 AM »
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  • The fast. Do we really need to eat more than once per day, perhaps with a 2 small collations? Penance isn't for Lent only.
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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #2 on: March 29, 2024, 08:00:53 AM »
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  • The fast. Do we really need to eat more than once per day, perhaps with a 2 small collations? Penance isn't for Lent only.
    Good luck, I can’t wait to eat lunch again. I thought fasting would get easier but it was just as hard this week as it was the first week. I lost like 12lbs. 
    anyway I gave up alcohol and coffee, and do not plan to go back to routine consumption. 

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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #3 on: March 29, 2024, 08:04:36 AM »
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  • The fast. Do we really need to eat more than once per day, perhaps with a 2 small collations? Penance isn't for Lent only.
    If I don't eat 3 large meals I lose weight (and I am already light enough), perhaps for older people who don't need as many calories it would be fine, but for younger guys 3 meals is basically required unless you are eating something extremely calorie dense (eg 3k calories in 1 meal).

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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #4 on: March 29, 2024, 08:06:36 AM »
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  • Yes.  Try to continue a better fast.  I was. Thinking about praying the Stations of the Cross every Friday before we go to bed. 
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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #5 on: March 30, 2024, 12:40:32 PM »
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  • Try to do a second daily Rosary.
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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #6 on: March 31, 2024, 07:27:32 AM »
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  • For those who mentioned fasting, it occurred to me, I think a simple "eat only during the three usual meals and abstain from any snacks between them" would be good practice outside Lent.

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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #7 on: March 31, 2024, 07:39:39 AM »
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  • Watch portions sizes too.  
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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #8 on: April 02, 2024, 05:38:28 PM »
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  • 15-20 decades of the Rosary, no movies/shows during the week, partial abstinence most days as well
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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #9 on: April 02, 2024, 07:48:06 PM »
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  • I notice the majority of these involve food, so I want to contribute a morsel --

    Just a friendly PSA that everyone isn't you. We all don't have the exact same age, body frame, muscle mass, total weight, metabolism, thyroid, insulin resistance, blood sugar stability/health, general health, level of activity, or genetics. Or career, for that matter.

    If you can do X, then great. Good for you; do X. Just don't assume that the 200 people you see at church, or your fellow CathInfo members, are "basically you" and could do the same things as you, if they only had the desire or gumption to. Because that's simply not true.

    The Church doesn't mandate quantity of food eaten OR number of meals -- for fasting, non-fasting, or any other time. She knows in Her wisdom that not everyone has the same body, or the same state in life. She preaches the need for penance, and fasting/abstinence to some degree, and leaves it at that.

    Dare I point out, that not everyone has the same weakness. Not everyone is weak against gluttony/lust. They have other fish to fry, as it were. Perhaps their besetting weakness is anger, or pride. It would be foolish to spend lots of time/effort on a fault you don't have, while ignoring major faults that could eventually cost you your soul. I realize the Capital Sins are all interconnected and each lead to the others ultimately -- but the means of fighting each of them is different, practically speaking.

    As a matter of fact, in my spiritual reading this Lent I learned something very interesting. (I highly recommend the book, "The Spiritual Combat")
    Perfection consists in conformity with the will of God, and charity. Nothing else. All else (fasting, obedience, corporal penances, even prayer!) is a means to that end. So if you were to, say, do serious fasts but be less passive/aligned with the will of God, you would literally be less holy/perfect that a man who isn't fasting at all, but is passive to the Will of God. Accepting a small penance thrown at you by life (God's Providence) *in a perfect manner* is superior to great penances chosen by our own will.

    This book also pointed out that you should work on *one* sin/fault at a time. Because as you gain perfection in that one weakness, all the other virtues tend to follow. So whatever weakness you have, however sin is manifested in your life, THAT is what have to put all your effort into. Don't scatter your forces to reach perfection in 10 areas at once; you'll succeed in none of them. That's what the book said.

    So just keep that in mind, as you throw out what you're doing/did for Lent, or what you will continue to do going forward. Don't be the Pharisee who disfigures his face to appear fasting, or blows a trumpet to announce his alms. We all know where they actually ranked, in the scheme of things, in the eyes of God.
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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #10 on: April 02, 2024, 07:59:24 PM »
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  • Excellent post Mathew. 


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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #11 on: April 03, 2024, 06:02:42 AM »
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  • I notice the majority of these involve food, so I want to contribute a morsel --

    Just a friendly PSA that everyone isn't you. We all don't have the exact same age, body frame, muscle mass, total weight, metabolism, thyroid, insulin resistance, blood sugar stability/health, general health, level of activity, or genetics. Or career, for that matter.

    If you can do X, then great. Good for you; do X. Just don't assume that the 200 people you see at church, or your fellow CathInfo members, are "basically you" and could do the same things as you, if they only had the desire or gumption to. Because that's simply not true.

    The Church doesn't mandate quantity of food eaten OR number of meals -- for fasting, non-fasting, or any other time. She knows in Her wisdom that not everyone has the same body, or the same state in life. She preaches the need for penance, and fasting/abstinence to some degree, and leaves it at that.

    Dare I point out, that not everyone has the same weakness. Not everyone is weak against gluttony/lust. They have other fish to fry, as it were. Perhaps their besetting weakness is anger, or pride. It would be foolish to spend lots of time/effort on a fault you don't have, while ignoring major faults that could eventually cost you your soul. I realize the Capital Sins are all interconnected and each lead to the others ultimately -- but the means of fighting each of them is different, practically speaking.

    As a matter of fact, in my spiritual reading this Lent I learned something very interesting. (I highly recommend the book, "The Spiritual Combat")
    Perfection consists in conformity with the will of God, and charity. Nothing else. All else (fasting, obedience, corporal penances, even prayer!) is a means to that end. So if you were to, say, do serious fasts but be less passive/aligned with the will of God, you would literally be less holy/perfect that a man who isn't fasting at all, but is passive to the Will of God. Accepting a small penance thrown at you by life (God's Providence) *in a perfect manner* is superior to great penances chosen by our own will.

    This book also pointed out that you should work on *one* sin/fault at a time. Because as you gain perfection in that one weakness, all the other virtues tend to follow. So whatever weakness you have, however sin is manifested in your life, THAT is what have to put all your effort into. Don't scatter your forces to reach perfection in 10 areas at once; you'll succeed in none of them. That's what the book said.

    So just keep that in mind, as you throw out what you're doing/did for Lent, or what you will continue to do going forward. Don't be the Pharisee who disfigures his face to appear fasting, or blows a trumpet to announce his alms. We all know where they actually ranked, in the scheme of things, in the eyes of God.
    I agree that this is an excellent post, Matthew.  Excellent reminders and food for thought.  I will check into that book.  

    At the same time, it is my understanding (correct me if I'm wrong) that the Church proscribes its fasting rules (at least partially) as a way to form better discipline in our lives.  This improved discipline in our eating habits is also supposed to help us to form more discipline in other matters/sins.  So, I can see why some folks would like to continue some form of discipline with their eating habits.      
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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #12 on: April 03, 2024, 06:16:30 AM »
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  • So just keep that in mind, as you throw out what you're doing/did for Lent, or what you will continue to do going forward. Don't be the Pharisee who disfigures his face to appear fasting, or blows a trumpet to announce his alms.

    I have an aversion to "throw[ing] out" on the forum ANYthing that I might be doing and don't understand why people are broadcasting it here.  Some here, of course, are anonymous (people know who I am, since I've revealed it), but even if I were fully anonymous, I'd be averse to broadcasting it anyway.  Everyone's aware of things that they COULD do, so threads like this serve no purpose.  Our Lord clearly instructed us to do such things in secret.

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    1 Take heed that you do not your justice before men, to be seen by them: otherwise you shall not have a reward of your Father who is in heaven.  2 Therefore when thou dost an almsdeed, sound not a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do in the ѕуηαgσgυєs and in the streets, that they may be honoured by men. Amen I say to you, they have received their reward.  3 But when thou dost alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doth.  4 That thy alms may be in secret, and thy Father who seeth in secret will repay thee.  5 And when ye pray, you shall not be as the hypocrites, that love to stand and pray in the ѕуηαgσgυєs and corners of the streets, that they may be seen by men: Amen I say to you, they have received their reward.  6 But thou when thou shalt pray, enter into thy chamber, and having shut the door, pray to thy Father in secret: and thy Father who seeth in secret will repay thee.

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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #13 on: April 03, 2024, 06:26:13 AM »
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  • I have an aversion to "throw[ing] out" on the forum ANYthing that I might be doing and don't understand why people are broadcasting it here.  Some here, of course, are anonymous (people know who I am, since I've revealed it), but even if I were fully anonymous, I'd be averse to broadcasting it anyway.  Everyone's aware of things that they COULD do, so threads like this serve no purpose.  Our Lord clearly instructed us to do such things in secret.

    St. Matth 6
    I don't think the OP nor those that responded were doing so "to be seen". I know I wasn't, and I don't appreciate the implication that I was.

    I think these threads are just fellow Catholics giving ideas to each other on what they might like to do (whether as part of the Lenten period) or as part of their normal post-Lent routines. Although you may know what you could do, I found a couple of the responses here and in the Lenten one very helpful.
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    Re: Lent: What practices will you continue after it ends?
    « Reply #14 on: April 03, 2024, 09:59:17 AM »
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  • I don't think the OP nor those that responded were doing so "to be seen". I know I wasn't, and I don't appreciate the implication that I was.

    I think these threads are just fellow Catholics giving ideas to each other on what they might like to do (whether as part of the Lenten period) or as part of their normal post-Lent routines. Although you may know what you could do, I found a couple of the responses here and in the Lenten one very helpful.

    That's why I mentioned it gently at the end -- just as a friendly reminder. I didn't want to accuse anyone.

    Nor did I want to be "against" the thread completely, simpliciter.

    But comments made in passing like, "and I don't understand why *anyone* would need to eat more than once a day, plus a couple snacks" almost like it was a given, shows a personal, subjective bias in the matter, and a certain ignorance that not everyone is the same. That is what inspired my post.

    Plus even more people were talking about fasting almost exclusively; which inspired the other part of my post. Some people, who haven't been to seminary, don't realize that holiness doesn't equal fasting, # of vocal prayers said each day, or other such measures. It's helpful to share the wisdom from various spiritual books that perhaps many laymen haven't read.

    Some people need their horizons broadened; they need to see a little bigger picture, from a bit higher up: for starters, let's try getting more than 12 inches off the ground :)
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