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Offline forlorn

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Is telling your children about Santa Claus immoral?
« on: March 21, 2021, 03:49:00 PM »
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  • Well, it's a lie, isn't it?

    I haven't had kids yet and probably won't for a number of years yet, so this isn't especially pertinent for me, but I wonder what both Catholic parents and of course those theologically educated/trained have to say about this very common practice in our society.


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    Re: Is telling your children about Santa Claus immoral?
    « Reply #1 on: March 21, 2021, 04:48:34 PM »
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  • It depends what you tell them. Santa Claus is an abbreviated form of Saint Nicholas. There are several threads already on this topic which you might read up on.

    Personally, Santa Claus was never mentioned in our home. When my eldest was asked by an old woman what Santa Claus had brought him he just looked at her puzzled.

    There is no harm in Santa Claus per se. It just depends on how you choose to treat gift giving and receiving.

    Teach your children about St Nicholas whose feast I believe id December 6th.
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    Re: Is telling your children about Santa Claus immoral?
    « Reply #2 on: March 21, 2021, 07:18:34 PM »
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  • Santa Claus or St Nicholas is one of the best loved saints all around the world.

    https://www.stnicholascenter.org/around-the-world/customs

    Tradition in Action published a lovely promotion for his feastday.
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    Re: Is telling your children about Santa Claus immoral?
    « Reply #3 on: March 21, 2021, 07:30:00 PM »
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  • We always taught our son that, no, there is not a literal "Santa Claus" who comes down the chimney, brings presents, and so on.  We taught him that St Nicholas does indeed exist, he is a saint in heaven, and can intercede for us, and that it is a custom to pretend that he brings presents (St Nicholas Day in Poland, Christmas Day in the US), and for men to dress up as him and play the role. 

    It never created the slightest issue in our home.  I am not Polish but his mother is, and we incorporate customs from our respective cultures.  Polish children are not brought up to "believe in Santa Claus".

    If you will stop and think about it, concocting a "Santa Claus" figure really smacks of Protestant misunderstanding of who saints are, and what they can do for us through their intercession.  Lacking this, they just pass on a lame story that, for some, becomes the first lie their children ever catch them up in.

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    Re: Is telling your children about Santa Claus immoral?
    « Reply #4 on: March 22, 2021, 01:54:09 AM »
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  • We don't "do" Santa Claus in our house. We keep the focus on Christ where it belongs.

    We do practice the old German custom of putting out your shoes for St. Nicholas Day (Dec. 6th) and have them filled with small treats and gifts overnight.
    Fr. Wolfgang Göttler did this at the Seminary and I was hooked. Especially since my wife and I are more German than any other nationality.
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    Re: Is telling your children about Santa Claus immoral?
    « Reply #5 on: March 22, 2021, 11:28:43 AM »
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  • Well, it's a lie, isn't it?

    I haven't had kids yet and probably won't for a number of years yet, so this isn't especially pertinent for me, but I wonder what both Catholic parents and of course those theologically educated/trained have to say about this very common practice in our society.
    It is lie. That should be the primary reason not to entertain this secular fantasy legend. The secondary reason is that does take away the point of Advent and Christmas. I would also refrain from even referring to St. Nicholas as "Santa Claus". This is just another attempt to secularize Christmas, robbing it of all Catholic identity.

    Our children gain nothing when we lie to them and will only contribute to losing their trust.

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    Re: Is telling your children about Santa Claus immoral?
    « Reply #6 on: March 22, 2021, 03:49:01 PM »
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  • Agree to all the above.  We put our focus on the Christ Child's Birthday; we try to make it a special, religious holy day.  Keep the MN vigil as we're able, and on Christmas morning, the children all go up to the lighted manger and say "Happy Birthday, Jesus!"  and then say a Hail Mary in His honor.  We don't even do our main gifts until Jan 6.  

    We don't lie to our children about Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, or any other such nonsense.  Isn't the Mystery of the Incarnation, the Resurrection, the Ascension, Pentecost, etc more wonderful and glorious for a child then some goofy fat man or a fluffy rabbit?  Give your children something of intellectual substance to dwell on (in an age appropriate manner, of course!) and help bring their minds UP to God, rather than filling them with goopy, sappy foolishness.

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    Re: Is telling your children about Santa Claus immoral?
    « Reply #7 on: March 22, 2021, 08:00:03 PM »
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  • I have never even had a girlfriend but I wouldn't do it. Since it would be lying. It would be maybe better to tell stories about St. Nicholas and present like a fictional story or maybe mix some true stuff such as him slapping Arius for being naughty.


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    Re: Is telling your children about Santa Claus immoral?
    « Reply #8 on: March 22, 2021, 09:38:13 PM »
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  • We can do without Santa, but we never leave Rudolph out of Christmas!
    Patience is a conquering virtue. The learned say that, if it not desert you, It vanquishes what force can never reach; Why answer back at every angry speech? No, learn forbearance or, I'll tell you what, You will be taught it, whether you will or not.
    -Geoffrey Chaucer