I agree with St. Giles. My husband, retired Air Force in 1992. Those who were under him, were whine bags. They work for an income and think of a 9 - 5 job. And it is not just the US Forces who are like this. but the troubles in the military is so bad. 75% of marriages go rotten. Now you have the vaccines and the alphabet people.
I myself was a WAC. I was there to get in and out. Marriage is a vow, and you can't do both. I never thought to. I needed to keep myself busy til my husband to be was ready for marriage, we were young.
I met lesbians, and witches you name it. What a mess! I enjoyed working on the job. I had very good and reasonable people. Try finding any sacraments, no way. The company you keep or are working around is a risk!
I behaved and yet there was adgitators on the Post, paid for, to make it look like a race riot, I did nothing, yet my name got on the CIA list, in1971.
USA is not a peace maker, and never was. Stay out is my advise. It is not good for family. I know many are looking for a stable job and gov't to take care of us. It isn't worth it.