Don’t know if this exactly applies, but was Trad, married a NO gal who seemingly embraced tradition wholeheartedly. But over the years, it became apparent she couldn’t give up her liberalism and feminism. The NO allowed her to keep all her false beliefs, and not feel guilty about them. While in Tradition, she knew she was wrong what she was doing, and felt guilty about it. That’s why she gave up Tradition. Let’s face it, most NO people love it because they can actually stay protestant in their beliefs while thinking themselves as Catholic . A Trad who marries a NO person for the most part is marrying a protestant. Wish I had known that back then.