There is no such a thing as men and women friendship :fryingpan:
Such a weird world we live in. I'll bet a lot of $ that guy doesn't have children with his wife, or else how does he have so much time to do all of this? Also, the fact that they don't have children means that their 'marriage' is really just a long-term 'structured dating' environment. Science has shown that couples who have children stay together a lot longer. Any married relationship which consciously avoids children will eventually fail. Sounds like this guy is bored with his life and his wife.
NO, men and women are so different that, if it weren't for the ability to reproduce with each other, a compelling argument could be made that men and women are a different species.)
. Men, if you really want to attract a woman, skip the gym and the weights (which ALL of them universally recommend to each other), forget about making your face beautiful, and go learn how to talk and listen to women, write sonnets, songs, play the guitar or something.
I have to laugh when I read various non-Catholic forums, usually populated by a lot of anti-feminists ("manosphere" or "red pill" types) and they talk about getting women -- they approach it from a completely physical male-minded perspective, as if women are just like men, only prettier or with different plumbing.
Since they, a bunch of men, are attracted by the physical, they assume women are as well!
Hahaha!
This goes both ways.Yup. Right on.
Women thinking that men are attracted to the same things we do (leadership, resources, independence, strength, etc). That is why modern women brag about their degrees, successful careers, or "I make more money than you", etc...like men actually cared about those things; (instead of looks). It is laughable.
It is as if each sex projects itself into the other, being actually clueless of each other; instead of recognizing that we do seem different species; only to be united for the procreation of families in Marriage.
I think this is, for the most part, a modern phenomenon, though. People before used to have a better perception of the differences between male and female nature.
Women are MUCH less concerned with looks than men are.
This goes both ways.Very true! If I see a guy who is barechested, flexing his muscles, his body tanned and oiled, bragging about how many pounds he can benchpress, I dismiss him as an immature, arrogant jerk. Likewise, if a man looks too feminine, wears skinny jeans, designer shoes, flaunts his designer labels, hairdo, and carries a shoulder bag, (Max Krah?), he's a ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ. The only temptation is to judge rashly.
Women thinking that men are attracted to the same things we do (leadership, resources, independence, strength, etc). That is why modern women brag about their degrees, successful careers, or "I make more money than you", etc...like men actually cared about those things; (instead of looks). It is laughable.
It is as if each sex projects itself into the other, being actually clueless of each other; instead of recognizing that we do seem different species; only to be united for the procreation of families in Marriage.
I think this is, for the most part, a modern phenomenon, though. People before used to have a better perception of the differences between male and female nature.
But the woman is "happily married" with 4 children. What's her excuse?Oh, i missed that fact. She's probably the typical feminized woman who has a career, makes most the money in the marriage, married a pushover (but nice) guy, who takes care of the kids and will let her go wherever she wants after work. She probably spends her social time hanging with friends or getting into new hobbies, because she "works a lot" and needs to "de stress" from the kids. She's probably burned out on being a mother and is looking for some excitement in her "boring" life.
Very true! If I see a guy who is barechested, flexing his muscles, his body tanned and oiled, bragging about how many pounds he can benchpress, I dismiss him as an immature, arrogant jerk.
Oh, i missed that fact. She's probably the typical feminized woman who has a career, makes most the money in the marriage, married a pushover (but nice) guy, who takes care of the kids and will let her go wherever she wants after work. She probably spends her social time hanging with friends or getting into new hobbies, because she "works a lot" and needs to "de stress" from the kids. She's probably burned out on being a mother and is looking for some excitement in her "boring" life.
Oh, i missed that fact. She's probably the typical feminized woman who has a career, makes most the money in the marriage, married a pushover (but nice) guy, who takes care of the kids and will let her go wherever she wants after work. She probably spends her social time hanging with friends or getting into new hobbies, because she "works a lot" and needs to "de stress" from the kids. She's probably burned out on being a mother and is looking for some excitement in her "boring" life.
Or, she was honestly going to this class to stay fit, and even with 4 children, she still is attractive enough where some random guy is flirting with her in a metro-sɛҳuąƖ-were-just-friends way, and she let herself get sucked in, when she had no intention of doing so. Affairs usually happen step-by-step, just like with other grave sins.
Men want sex.
Women want to submit to the alpha. If she has no alpha, she'll collect beta and gamma males to orbit her.
That's how it is.
I believe Croix that the newer generations primarily go after men for their looks.With the advent of no-fault divorce, women can be just as superficial as men can be and they can choose a 'spouse' who's fun 'right now', instead of worrying about long-term. Then if it doesn't work out (and it usually doesn't), then you can get re-married.
For some reason, though, that's shifting in the younger generations. I believe Croix that the newer generations primarily go after men for their looks. I heard an EWTN radio show where the priest said that statistics indicate that pretty much half of all visitors to porn sites are women / girls.That’s definitely something I’ve noticed. When I used to go to a wives group most wives were ENCOURAGING me to watch porn with my husband, and that it would spice things up. I kept thinking no all I’d be slicing up is my place in hell for commuting a mortal sin, and helping my husband commit one too.
When I used to go to a wives group most wives were ENCOURAGING me to watch porn with my husband, and that it would spice things up.
There is no such a thing as men and women friendship :fryingpan:I completely agree that men and women cannot and should not be friends except in marriage.
And I have to ask...what kind of men/women DO co-ed wrestling?! I've never heard of such a thing. Well, until now.I know right, it's insane. It's basically tantamount to dry-humping. If my wife was wrestling with another man I'd take it nearly as seriously as adultery, since it's basically a hair's breadth away from it. And now he's going off on a holiday alone with her too!
The whole situation is just...strange. A very excellent example of insanity in the modern world, indeed!
An example of insanity in the modern world is that the new Spain Miss Universe 2018 is a man.For all we know, they could be boys.
I would post a picture but it is too grotesque :barf:.
This transgenderism lunacy has been cooking for a long time, though. There is a real sodomite mafia controlling the world today, re-engineering society to their whims. They want to destroy real womanhood (and manhood). Think for example, the beauty standards of the High Fashion models. These women such as Victoria Secret models are carefully selected to not look like real women. Believe it or not, if you notice closely, they look like adolescent boys.
I always felt that there was something really wrong with these unnaturally skinny, tall, curveless, narrow hip, masculine - faced girls in the high fashion world. Well, it is because the industry is completely controlled by sodomites who do not like real women with pretty and feminine faces and hourglass shapes; but transgender men.
only to google and find out that there already are! :facepalm:A lesson for us all: Be careful what you google!
A lesson for us all: Be careful what you google!Thankfully I ended up reading an article, so the images weren't too bad.
What is seen cannot be unseen.
An example of insanity in the modern world is that the new Spain Miss Universe 2018 is a man.I heard about this on the radio and figured the host had fallen victim of a parody news site. But it turns out that it's true. Two boys recently won several high school girls State track and Field championships in, I think, Connecticut. In a few years, men are going to dominate most women's sports under the guise of "trans-genderism".
And I have to ask...what kind of men/women DO co-ed wrestling?! I've never heard of such a thing. Well, until now.I agree.
The whole situation is just...strange. A very excellent example of insanity in the modern world, indeed!
An example of insanity in the modern world is that the new Spain Miss Universe 2018 is a man.
I heard about this on the radio and figured the host had fallen victim of a parody news site. But it turns out that it's true. Two boys recently won several high school girls State track and Field championships in, I think, Connecticut. In a few years, men are going to dominate most women's sports under the guise of "trans-genderism".Yes, it is Connecticut. Two of my friend's grandchildren graduated from that school in June. She said she's glad they are the last grand kids because she won't have to attend any more public school graduation ceremonies. The behavior of many of the people, graduates and parents, was disgraceful and most of the females were dressed like prostitutes. Some of the graduates proudly displayed their lbgtq buttons and regalia.
Was it true or fake news that Pope John Paul was sending letters to married woman on regular basis?It seems that this is true. The Guardian reports it here:
Look at this post on "Stack Exchange", a question & answer forum. Can you imagine the insanity? People have forgotten -- and they deny -- basic human nature..
How to convince my wife that my best friend and I are just friends? (https://interpersonal.stackexchange.com/questions/16441/how-to-convince-my-wife-that-my-best-friend-and-i-are-just-friends)
I have a friend (a girl), who I met around 8 months ago. Since then, she has become my best friend and we are extremely close. Understandably, my wife is envious of the relationship and even sometimes suspects it is more than a platonic friendship (at least emotionally).
How can I convince her that the relationship is platonic without changing the nature of the friendship?
Here are the critical, key points:.
- - Me and 'Katie' (fictional name for my friend, for future reference only) met at a wrestling class. This is an intimate sport with a lot of close, physical contact. We both love the sport and we train together 3 times per week (in a class situation) and then 1 on 1 alone once a week.
- - We meet up once a week for a non wrestling related day. We usually do another activity just for fun and then go out for food or just hang out somewhere for the day.
- - We have a holiday booked for 1 week. It is a training camp and we are sharing a room, but it is a twin room.
- - We speak on the phone (via a txting app) on average 2 - 3 times per day. I would say we exchange an average of 20 - 50 messages per day. We always send one to each other last thing at night.
- - When we have been apart, we have told each other how we miss each-other and have exchanged mutual feelings of loving each others company, loving being friends etc. She has also said if I am down or look sad that it makes her feel the same way.
- - Understandably, the above makes it look like there is something more than friendship potentially. But here is the thing. We are both married. She has said she is happily married and has 4 children with her husband. But she has also said that he is happy with our friendship and that she wants us to be friends forever. She said that since knowing me, she has been much happier in general.
The friendship has dramatically improved my happiness levels. Having such a close friend is amazing, and I want to keep that, whilst keeping my partner happy and comfortable also.
I have spoken to my wife about the friend and she said she won't stop me seeing her but that she is very jealous of it and doesn't like it.