Since you insist I explain myself, I have no problem with that.
I live on my own. I am completely responsible over myself. I have no financial support from anybody except my employers and I am more than happy with that. On a base level I think I am already exceptional without having to go into further detail. So, I want more for my life. I can have room for more, especially since I've gone through enough trouble to end up here, this is not an easy site to find on your own. Your head is in the clouds.
I have no inability to find girls, the girls are of bad quality. Like owning a poisoned spring, a lot of people don't get the luxury of their own water supply but what good is poisoned water? My posts will never say "girls need to pay more attention to me", the opposite is actually true. I am commenting on the quality of the girls. I don't spend any time on social media to know what propaganda is out there. I know my own personal experience.
Am I a reproach? Clearly yes, but you shouldn't let it be that way. I'm not old enough for everything I'm currently dealing with. However I am doing everything I need to get done and doing exceptionally well at it. I can ask for more.
To be clear, I'm not insisting, just inviting.
The point I'm going to try to make here doesn't just apply to you. You surprised me at being so negative about things at such a young age, but there are at least a half dozen on this site that have followed the same pattern. They don't like what they're seeing out in the world and then come here and use CathInfo as a place to vent not just about the worldly people, but also apply that to every female alive today. We've quickly gone from "where can I find the good women" to "they don't exist, we should all just give up." But, I don't think you really believe that to be true, but are only frustrated by the scarcity.
From my perspective, you should save your venting for any other random place on the internet -- there are plenty of other spaces for that. Here, you're coming into a group of no less than 150 Catholics who are serious about their faith. Sure, it seems to be mostly old men presently, but some of them at least have daughters and granddaughters and nieces that they consider to be good Catholics or are aware of good Catholic families in their church. If a young lady were to ask me, "where are the good young men?" with exceptions I could count on just one hand, I wouldn't point them to those here. Here you find young men that don't believe they're capable of overcoming the challenges of their times. They like to complain about the situation, but seldom use this space to develop solutions or really connect with the like-minded. What that might look like is going to vary by person, but everyone can avoid the opposite extreme of speaking as if there is not even one young lady alive that is good enough for them.
As for you in particular, have you thought about moving? Living on your own is the easiest time in life to do so and there are pockets with high Trad populations. I'm not the sort that thinks everyone should just move into these selected areas, but it seems that you might be able to do so more easily than most and might possibly not have much you'd be leaving behind. If moving is not a possibility, consider traveling whenever possible. Building real connections with like-minded Catholics will be beneficial no matter whether you eventually marry or not.
Pray for your future family. You have plenty of time to find what you're looking for.
Topic: I want daughters, I want sons, how many good girls? There are none. (Read 3712 times)