Oh. Well then I guess you're just destined to be die alone. 
Something tells me perhaps a more positive, affirming and hopeful attitude might be in order.
Whining on the internet is not the stuff of male leadership. Sorry.
Haven't you thought about this being for awareness? So you, say, can help out a young niece, or a sister to do it for her's, to help secure her life?
If I'm typing on here it's because I want to, I hardly have free time to. I lose sleep talking to people in order to see some change.
How many push ups has your man done today? Not an attack, it should be more than me, right?
I'm not desperate, I want a girl to rub my back once I'm done lifting. I want offspring and I do not want to buy anymore premade meals. That aside I could continue to live on my own.