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Offline Matthew

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I believe Domestic Violence against men is real
« on: September 28, 2013, 11:31:54 AM »
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  • I haven't had any experience of it personally, but I do know of at least one case IRL where a man's wife was very violent with him. Severe scratches, throwing ash trays, and such. At a party, he showed us the wounds on his back as evidence.

    It does seem that the current System would overlook such violence, since women always have to be the "victims" in the current Feminist society we live in.

    Hopefully this isn't something that most of us will ever have to deal with. But with fallen human nature, you never know. Traditional Catholics are all too human. I know of several cases of "Traditional Catholic adultery", for example. (Not referring to anything I read online, either -- I'm talking strictly IRL)

    And even if we ourselves won't have to deal with a violent spouse, it doesn't mean that none of our relatives and friends will.
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    Offline jen51

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    « Reply #1 on: September 28, 2013, 11:36:27 AM »
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  • In cases like that I see nothing wrong with a husband quieting his wife's crazy by physical force. I doubt a wife would be violent towards her husband if she knew he wouldn't tolerate it.
    Religion clean and undefiled before God and the Father, is this: to visit the fatherless and widows in their tribulation: and to keep one's self unspotted from this world.
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    I believe Domestic Violence against men is real
    « Reply #2 on: September 28, 2013, 11:55:19 AM »
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  • Society tolerates it and can enable her. Many LEO won't arrest a woman and many times the state won't prosecute one. Most people don't accept that a man can be abused so no support from his friends or family.

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    « Reply #3 on: September 28, 2013, 12:04:44 PM »
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  • Quote from: jen51
    In cases like that I see nothing wrong with a husband quieting his wife's crazy by physical force. I doubt a wife would be violent towards her husband if she knew he wouldn't tolerate it.


    All she has to do is call 911, he will most likely be arrested. His choice really comes down to leaving or putting up with it.
     I wrote this before but there was a sermon on here by a trad priest saying husbands are at fault for "angry" women.

    Offline Capt McQuigg

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    « Reply #4 on: September 28, 2013, 12:21:39 PM »
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  • It's true.

    Women initiate violence at every level of severity, from mean looks to shooting someone in the chest, equally with men.  The statistical differences are minimal.

    The biggest lie out there is that there are sweet Donna Reed-type women married to vicious ugly brutes.  Most brutish men are married to ugly brutish women because like attracts like.  



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    « Reply #5 on: September 28, 2013, 12:34:33 PM »
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  •  :fryingpan:
    I KNOW it's real!  As a child, I had "best friend" whose Jєωιѕн mother regularly beat the organic substance out of her Hindu husband.  She outweighed him by at least 100 lbs and was a head taller.  Mrs. D. would sucker-punch him, wrestle him to the floor and stomp on him, kick him in the kidneys, the head.  Sometimes she tossed him down the stairs or onto the brick patio.  He drank and often started it when drunk by cursing and slapping her, but she always ended it by finishing him off.  There were two younger children besides my friend.  If they were going at it, we'd run out of the house into the woods, if possible to get out the back door without passing her.  If not, we'd barricade ourselves in a bedroom or hide in the closet that locked from the inside.  Once Mrs. D. "lost it," there was no telling what she'd do, including come after her children and her children's friends.  I was terrified of her, so never did my parents what REALLY went on at Rachel's house.  I think they knew he was drunk, because I was never allowed to get in a car with him or to be in his charge.  Most of the time, Rachel came to MY house to play.  Mr. D. would just "take it."  I was afraid of him as well, because he drank and he worshipped a creepy idol that was on a shelf in the living room, Ganesh, the god with the elephant head.  I remember my mother telling me I not to join if he told me to pray to it, and I was not to eat any food that was in front of it.  If I saw him pray to it, I was to come home at once.  The D.'s split up when I was in fifth grade, and they all moved.  I recall the reason was that Mr. D. had had an affair with a woman in his office, whom he "remarried."  Mrs. D. got the children and moved in with her mother who was also divorced.  I lost touch with Rachel after a few years.  But, yes, husbands do, indeed get beaten by their wives.  The real losers in this case were the children.
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    « Reply #6 on: September 28, 2013, 04:41:13 PM »
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  • The real and more common domestic violence against men are their wives who refuse to allow them to be the head of their family. Too many women emasculate their husbands by making all of the decisions. The men tire of arguing and give up. The result is an unnatural household with both spouses left unfulfilled.

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    « Reply #7 on: September 28, 2013, 05:04:53 PM »
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  • The violence I have observed (heard of first-hand) by wives is so scary and terrible.  I have chatted with a number of ladies at the park, dog walking, neighbors and more than a few had mentioned that when their husband was sick, they decided when it was time for them to die.  One was a nurse, some had home hospice or other situation.  Each one seemed proud of having known it was time to administer the lethal dose.  So, it seems relatively easy to kill a husband legally if he is seriously ill.  


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    « Reply #8 on: September 28, 2013, 05:40:07 PM »
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  • It is easy, and that is the direction we are headed in. It is cheaper for the government and ins co, thins the population and provides organs for harvesting. Morality is seldom considered.

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    « Reply #9 on: September 29, 2013, 12:13:54 AM »
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  • I thought it only happened to Frenchmen ?
    "Some preachers will keep silence about the truth, and others will trample it underfoot and deny it. Sanctity of life will be held in derision even by those who outwardly profess it, for in those days Our Lord Jesus Christ will send them not a true Pastor but a destroyer."  St. Francis of Assisi

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    « Reply #10 on: September 29, 2013, 05:33:59 PM »
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  • I am personally aware of one case in which this happened, with a former neighbor family.  The case was handled by the police like any other domestic violence case.  The woman was arrested, charged, and convicted.  They divorced.  
    Stir up within Thy Church, we beseech Thee, O Lord, the Spirit with which blessed Josaphat, Thy Martyr and Bishop, was filled, when he laid down his life for his sheep: so that, through his intercession, we too may be moved and strengthen by the same Spir


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    « Reply #11 on: September 29, 2013, 10:07:38 PM »
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  • Quote from: Jerry
    The real and more common domestic violence against men are their wives who refuse to allow them to be the head of their family. Too many women emasculate their husbands by making all of the decisions. The men tire of arguing and give up. The result is an unnatural household with both spouses left unfulfilled.


    It is even more disastrous if you consider the impact this has on the children, especially boys. Everything from personality disorders to psychopathy to feminism to sadism to effeminacy to paraphilia (ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖity is paraphilia as it is inherently deviant) in cases of men who have become everything from politicians to sex offenders to serial killers has its ultimate origin in a weak, deficient, abusive, inefficacious, negligent or absent/dead father: in some cases this comes to pass because a father's rights are supplanted and his image is being destroyed by a mother who poisons her sons against him.

    I have noticed not so much physical violence against men as I have noticed psychological and emotional abuse or manipulation, which has as its beginning or for its end the insubordination of an emasculating wife, the usurpation of patriarchal authority and the belittling of the father in the presence of the children.

    Usually in such cases the household was not established upon the principles of Catholic faith and morals and even the Sacrament of Matrimony is degraded to mere fiduciary formality if it is in the picture at all.

    It more pervasive than people think.

    Please ignore all that I have written regarding sedevacantism.

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    « Reply #12 on: September 30, 2013, 02:24:32 AM »
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  • Spot on Hobbledehoy, I think that the use of psychological terrorism the threat of divorce is now a commonplace. The way I picture it is the wife is holding a grenade, her finger is tightly grasping the pin. The husband dares to get out of line, her reaction is immediate. OK that's it (insert profanity here)! I'm pulling the pin there'll be nothing left in this room but pink mist! which she promptly does though keeping the safety lever depressed. The husband pleads "No! Please I'll do whatever you say!" "I'll replace the pin on the condition that you do this that & the other! The husband says "Certainly madam I'll begin at once" & thereafter meekly complies with her demands. Divorce & the consequent destruction of the family is the grenade. This makes me think that Grigory Nestor who died a few years ago in Ukraine at the age of 116 was on to something when he attributed his marvellous longevity to never having married.

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    « Reply #13 on: September 30, 2013, 04:12:57 AM »
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  • Everything in the media is against a patriarchal culture, which is the only natural culture.

    It's constant propaganda, entirely saturated, in every form of entertainment and media delivery.

    It's been in the works for a very long time historically, we are at the near bottom of a decline that goes back centuries, though it accelerated so much recently.

    Sincerely,

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    « Reply #14 on: September 30, 2013, 04:58:26 AM »
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  • Agreed, we can also throw in the effect of birth control.

    Bottom line is that we do not live in a Catholic society. All these issues are symptoms of heresy and paganism. Marx was right when he wrote that democracy leads to Marxism. The Catholic Monarchy is the only answer but that will happen.