I haven't had any experience of it personally, but I do know of at least one case IRL where a man's wife was very violent with him. Severe scratches, throwing ash trays, and such. At a party, he showed us the wounds on his back as evidence.
It does seem that the current System would overlook such violence, since women always have to be the "victims" in the current Feminist society we live in.
Hopefully this isn't something that most of us will ever have to deal with. But with fallen human nature, you never know. Traditional Catholics are all too human. I know of several cases of "Traditional Catholic adultery", for example. (Not referring to anything I read online, either -- I'm talking strictly IRL)
And even if we ourselves won't have to deal with a violent spouse, it doesn't mean that none of our relatives and friends will.