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Re: Wicked husband, children watching
« Reply #65 on: September 11, 2017, 09:49:35 PM »
Thank you, to all of you, for taking time to offer advice for our situation. I take them to heart and consider all as I am working on myself also while I suffer in this difficult marriage..it is not easy to come out and talk about this with strangers, but we are all Catholic, so that makes us FAMILY. 


To those concerned, my husband has NEVER, and would NEVER deliberately expose our children to pornography. He does love them and sees the value of their innocence, but he cannot overcome this for himself. 
I have the reminder in the back of my mind that every time he does this (regardless of the kids seeing or knowing anything) he brings demons with him, and in our home..unless there is some kind of heavenly protection that I cannot verify..so I am constantly haunted by this frightening reality.
(We use holy water liberally around here and daily. Benedict medals in place, and Hearts of Jesus and Mary displayed in a place of honor with daily Consecration said) 

Thankfully the children have ZERO access to internet and tv is off during the day. Then it's mostly family oriented shows with dad. 
I would toss the tv in a heartbeat if he would let me. But he's addicted. 

The ideal that I am praying for is to be able to raise my children without the added modernism, and with Traditional Catholic Family Unity. 
Daily prayers and Rosary while we trudge on.  :pray:



Re: Wicked husband, children watching
« Reply #66 on: September 20, 2017, 08:04:41 PM »
In other words you don't know, and you could be wrong.

Also, at the risk of starting a cackle fest in the hen house, if this is an honest post, and not a misrepresentation then there are alternatives, such as we are dealing with a scuffed up, desperate mother of two, and she's talking about what it felt like, these alleged traditional priests actually said something else i.e. she misunderstood.

Real world example. "Sweet heart, you gonna eat  that second slice of cake?"

She thinks "I look like a fat troll!"

He thinks "Am I gonna be a dad again?"

She says "HE CALLED ME FAT AND UGLY! :really-mad2: >:( :cussing: :'("

He joins the dog in the barn.
:laugh2: :laugh1: :laugh2: :applause: :cheers:


Re: Wicked husband, children watching
« Reply #67 on: September 20, 2017, 08:16:47 PM »
Thank you, to all of you, for taking time to offer advice for our situation. I take them to heart and consider all as I am working on myself also while I suffer in this difficult marriage..it is not easy to come out and talk about this with strangers, but we are all Catholic, so that makes us FAMILY.


To those concerned, my husband has NEVER, and would NEVER deliberately expose our children to pornography. He does love them and sees the value of their innocence, but he cannot overcome this for himself.
I have the reminder in the back of my mind that every time he does this (regardless of the kids seeing or knowing anything) he brings demons with him, and in our home..unless there is some kind of heavenly protection that I cannot verify..so I am constantly haunted by this frightening reality.
(We use holy water liberally around here and daily. Benedict medals in place, and Hearts of Jesus and Mary displayed in a place of honor with daily Consecration said)

Thankfully the children have ZERO access to internet and tv is off during the day. Then it's mostly family oriented shows with dad.
I would toss the tv in a heartbeat if he would let me. But he's addicted.

The ideal that I am praying for is to be able to raise my children without the added modernism, and with Traditional Catholic Family Unity.
Daily prayers and Rosary while we trudge on.  :pray:
my prayers are with you, and if your a troll, I default that you are sincere, what do I lose?  nada.  
Now this tv thing.  I've noticed for a long time how propagandized American's are, the stuypid things we believe that are spoon fed to us by this hooknosed hymie tools of satan.  Been "red-pilled" for a minute or two.  BUT  jst like when an old girlfriend asked her brother and I if we where giving up alcohol for lent, his response 25 yrs ago was "hell no, the NCAA men's basketball tournament is in lent"  Truer words where never spoken.  How can you watch KU basketball without a TV?  Father Violette granted me that caveat once, even came over for a few games and beers over the years. 
God bless.  Hang in there, keep praying, introduce your husband to some good MEN in the parish (no hens, for certain!!)  and his better nature just might come around.  Action though, God does not drive parked cars.  Good friends build good men.