You shouldn't be friending people you don't actually know, or at least know who they are/where they're from (e.g. Cathinfo) anyway, even if you weren't beseiged by sodomites
I will pray for you, in the meantime new friend request must only be accepted if you know the person in real life, or they can authenticate themselves in the virtual/internet world with, say, a PM on CI here or whateveer.