Author Topic: Blog post about why Trad men dont marry (Read 8215 times)

Traditional Guy 20 · « **Reply #60 on:** July 20, 2012, 11:40:16 PM »

Quote from: Telesphorus

Or maybe they understand how evil the world is instead of hankering after it.

And they recognize the bill of goods liberal trads want to sell in order to advance their personal interests even though it is subversive of traditional values.

It is funny that these women seem to believe that as long as you can get a child past high school there will be no more sinful things they are exposed to and will turn out okay.

It shows an elitism to me that many Traditional Catholics look down on those who went to public schools. But you know most Trads are more well to do in the middle or upper middle class...

Traditional Guy 20 · « **Reply #61 on:** July 20, 2012, 11:57:24 PM »

Quote from: PenitentWoman

Oh here it is. From an NO blogger. Scroll down to the "pants pass"
http://simchafisher.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/pants-pass/

Geez what an obnoxious hag. Women should not dress like men, bottom line. If you know anything about feminism Jєωιѕн women started the movement and it originally came from the Jєωιѕн and Marxist Frankfurt School.

PenitentWoman · « **Reply #62 on:** July 21, 2012, 02:21:55 AM »

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Quote from: PenitentWoman
Oh here it is. From an NO blogger. Scroll down to the "pants pass"
http://simchafisher.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/pants-pass/

Geez what an obnoxious hag. Women should not dress like men, bottom line. If you know anything about feminism Jєωιѕн women started the movement and it originally came
from the Jєωιѕн and Marxist Frankfurt School.

I like skirts. My manager is fine with me breaking dress code to wear long skirts so I have reason to wear pants anymore. BFF told me tonight (at my place of employment) that if I marry a man who won't "let" me wear pants, she will not be part of my wedding. 17 years of friendship ending over pants. Not sure whether to laugh or cry.

PenitentWoman · « **Reply #63 on:** July 21, 2012, 02:32:28 AM »

Should say "have no reason."

MaterDominici · « **Reply #64 on:** July 21, 2012, 03:21:42 AM »

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I like skirts. My manager is fine with me breaking dress code to wear long skirts so I have reason to wear pants anymore. BFF told me tonight (at my place of employment) that if I marry a man who won't "let" me wear pants, she will not be part of my wedding. 17 years of friendship ending over pants. Not sure whether to laugh or cry.

Hang in there, PW. Despite your friend's jumping the gun on what your yet-to-have-met husband will or won't "let" you do, it does remind me that it is good that you're making these outward changes now while you don't have any men in your life that could be accused of influencing your behavior. Despite what she says, it is obvious that these things have to do with YOU alone and the decisions YOU are making. I'm sure she realizes that despite her initial frustration.

As crazy as it sounds, in her eyes, it's you that is ending your long friendship by becoming someone that she thinks she could never be friends with. Continue to be the friend you've always been within the bounds of Catholic standards and let her decide whether or not she can continue to be your friend.

ADD: If this friend is in any way an outright BAD influence -- presuring you to do things you shouldn't, etc -- it's a good idea to distance yourself.

PenitentWoman · « **Reply #65 on:** July 21, 2012, 09:21:59 AM »

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I like skirts. My manager is fine with me breaking dress code to wear long skirts so I have reason to wear pants anymore. BFF told me tonight (at my place of employment) that if I marry a man who won't "let" me wear pants, she will not be part of my wedding. 17 years of friendship ending over pants. Not sure whether to laugh or cry.

Hang in there, PW. Despite your friend's jumping the gun on what your yet-to-have-met husband will or won't "let" you do, it does remind me that it is good that you're making these outward changes now while you don't have any men in your life that could be accused of influencing your behavior. Despite what she says, it is obvious that these things have to do with YOU alone and the decisions YOU are making. I'm sure she realizes that despite her initial frustration.

As crazy as it sounds, in her eyes, it's you that is ending your long friendship by becoming someone that she thinks she could never be friends with. Continue to be the friend you've always been within the bounds of Catholic standards and let her decide whether or not she can continue to be your friend.

ADD: If this friend is in any way an outright BAD influence -- presuring you to do things you shouldn't, etc -- it's a good idea to distance yourself.

Thank you. You have a very nice way with words.

I think my friend maybe means well, but she doesn't understand why I've changed. She is afraid I'm going to end up in an abusive situation which is not true. She doesn't accept what I'd want for my life because it is foreign to her. Submission etc. is abuse to her. Like me, she wasn't really even aware of traditional Catholicism. To her, just accepting Novus Ordo "rules" is difficult.

I'll keep praying for her.

wallflower · « **Reply #66 on:** July 22, 2012, 11:19:50 AM »

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Perhaps a little too far right? That could be part of the cautionary tale ... kids may not accept what they were taught but could be pushed to other reactionary extremes.

This is the kind of comment I've gotten a lot lately. I'm being "extreme" by wearing skirts. I'm taking my conversion "too far."

Later tonight I'll try and share the link for this nice little artwork my "best" friend sent me making fun of women who dress modestly.

No worries, I am a skirt wearer too. That wasn't about you, it was about tradguy's political leanings. Even public school can't be discussed in terms of Faith or spirituality, it gets reduced to left or right wing talk. That's what I was refering to as an extreme that may not be any better than its counterpart.

Also, I agree that blog was horribly obnoxious.

Telesphorus · « **Reply #67 on:** July 22, 2012, 12:11:45 PM »

Quote from: Traditional Guy 20

Considering even many Traditional Catholics are very liberal I don't see anything wrong with being, how do you say it, right-wing.

"Taking it to extremes" this vague formula without any principle at all is used to attack authentic Catholics by liberalizers.

There are cases of extremes. But if you want to talk about extremes, you need to be specific and cite authorities. You can't just vaguely complain about "extremists" (when in reality it's a complaint about Catholic authorities you don't approve of)

Traditional Guy 20 · « **Reply #68 on:** July 22, 2012, 10:26:42 PM »

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"Taking it to extremes" this vague formula without any principle at all is used to attack authentic Catholics by liberalizers.

There are cases of extremes. But if you want to talk about extremes, you need to be specific and cite authorities. You can't just vaguely complain about "extremists" (when in reality it's a complaint about Catholic authorities you don't approve of)

Nonsense my fellow Catholic. We see many Traditional Catholics buying into the feminist ideology, which is very liberal. We see many Traditional Catholics who don't seem to think race matters. which is again very liberal. And I've also seen a few philo-Semites on this forum, which is again shown to show some misplaced sympathy.

Traditional Guy 20 · « **Reply #69 on:** July 22, 2012, 10:28:13 PM »

Quote from: wallflower

No worries, I am a skirt wearer too. That wasn't about you, it was about tradguy's political leanings. Even public school can't be discussed in terms of Faith or spirituality, it gets reduced to left or right wing talk. That's what I was refering to as an extreme that may not be any better than its counterpart.

Also, I agree that blog was horribly obnoxious.

Of course. I am against left-wing movements.