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Offline sebo3e

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Hello everyone can someone help me with correction
« on: May 21, 2020, 09:44:11 PM »
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  • I have an question about correcting a sinner even so i asked but hope someone can give me an answer

    For example are we obligated to warn person if it crosses red light but we dont know him or her if is close to us or further away what counts here and how to be carefull to not by hyporcate etc?

    Second question

    What do you do in serius situations like when person argue freind or family member cussing swearing gossping how to stop this since in some cases we need to do that right on place if our coincace tell us if is directed to us we do it in private if person offended us enyone ever had this experience if it did can you share with me?

    Third question

    Do we need to stay silent if person block our path and want to argue with us and dont want to let us go then we dont sin correct even so it says to not be in sin of others yet when there s no will there s no sin to

    How do you warn person when someone use lord name in vain can i tell them that this is sin or that s not good idea to tell them that? dont want to be self rightoues

    Also i learned rules about this to

    Rule of saints i have to be gentle show love and mercy if there s not that abort mission
    i need to be in state of grace

    and of course i need to look at my self first if i do the same yet if we do argue how do we warn someone whu argue as well do we tell them this affect me because i argue to while correcting?


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    Re: Hello everyone can someone help me with correction
    « Reply #1 on: May 22, 2020, 12:01:22 AM »
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  • For example are we obligated to warn person if it crosses red light but we dont know him or her if is close to us or further away what counts here and how to be carefull to not by hyporcate etc?

    In this case in generaI, think you should let it go. Do you know this person? Are you in the same car with them? If so then maybe you should say "Hey, you just crossed a red light." Otherwise in tracking down this person you would cause more damage than the warning was worth it. 


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    Re: Hello everyone can someone help me with correction
    « Reply #2 on: May 22, 2020, 12:07:18 AM »
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  • What do you do in serius situations like when person argue freind or family member cussing swearing gossping how to stop this since in some cases we need to do that right on place if our coincace tell us if is directed to us we do it in private if person offended us enyone ever had this experience if it did can you share with me?

    In the case of the person who cusses and swears maybe if you talked to the person and say to them in private that this type of language is offensive to you. If that person respects you then they will try to avoid using that type of language. 
    With respect to gossiping I recommend that if you are talking and the conversation turns to talking about other people then the best thing is to try to say something good. If you can't say something good then don't say anything at all.   

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    Re: Hello everyone can someone help me with correction
    « Reply #3 on: May 22, 2020, 12:25:56 AM »
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  • There are three general rules for dealing with other peoples faults.

    1. Is it a matter of mortal sin?

             If it is not, there is less reason to object; if it is, you may be required to.

    2. Do you have influence with the person?

             If you are their superior, you must speak up. If you are near equal, you must use your judgement. I you are the inferior, you must be very careful.

    3. Will it make the situation better if you object? Will it be worse?

             If the person is acting out of ignorance or weakness, they will likely listen. If they are acting through malice, they may do worse to spite you.


    In dealing with charges of hypocrisy,remind them that Christ and His law are the standard; not you.

    We are all sinners and you are just reminding them of the same commandments that you both must follow.


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    Re: Hello everyone can someone help me with correction
    « Reply #4 on: May 22, 2020, 09:36:34 AM »
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  • For example are we obligated to warn person if it crosses red light but we dont know him or her if is close to us or further away what counts here and how to be carefull to not by hyporcate etc?

    In this case in generaI, think you should let it go. Do you know this person? Are you in the same car with them? If so then maybe you should say "Hey, you just crossed a red light." Otherwise in tracking down this person you would cause more damage than the warning was worth it.
    I understand thank you for the reply i appreciate it it was helpfull its good to learn new experiences and new things right?
    Also we need to know the person to warn them? about what i asked

    understand thank you for answer


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    Re: Hello everyone can someone help me with correction
    « Reply #5 on: May 22, 2020, 09:40:34 AM »
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  • What do you do in serius situations like when person argue freind or family member cussing swearing gossping how to stop this since in some cases we need to do that right on place if our coincace tell us if is directed to us we do it in private if person offended us enyone ever had this experience if it did can you share with me?

    In the case of the person who cusses and swears maybe if you talked to the person and say to them in private that this type of language is offensive to you. If that person respects you then they will try to avoid using that type of language.
    With respect to gossiping I recommend that if you are talking and the conversation turns to talking about other people then the best thing is to try to say something good. If you can't say something good then don't say anything at all.  

    Allright i whould like to know something in situations where person doesnt change or listens when it was corrected and do it over and over again then its best to be quiet right and leave room?

    Another thing is should i talk with priest about this situations is it ok to tell them i am not shure if that can be considered gossip but bible teach us to bring two witness if they dont listen to them we bring them to church yet when you re lukewarm christian this isnt easy do we need to tell priest that they call them to church afther explaining situation?
    TW

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    Re: Hello everyone can someone help me with correction
    « Reply #6 on: May 22, 2020, 09:43:07 AM »
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  • There are three general rules for dealing with other peoples faults.

    1. Is it a matter of mortal sin?

             If it is not, there is less reason to object; if it is, you may be required to.

    2. Do you have influence with the person?

             If you are their superior, you must speak up. If you are near equal, you must use your judgement. I you are the inferior, you must be very careful.

    3. Will it make the situation better if you object? Will it be worse?

             If the person is acting out of ignorance or weakness, they will likely listen. If they are acting through malice, they may do worse to spite you.


    In dealing with charges of hypocrisy,remind them that Christ and His law are the standard; not you.

    We are all sinners and you are just reminding them of the same commandments that you both must follow.
    Thank you for the explanation i also whould like to know on 2nd part where you talked about judgement being inferior what does that mean?

    and other about dealing with charges to remaind me how do i do that can you give me an example please that i can understand thank you in advance
    TZ