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Any man who is starting to think that a prenuptial agreement might somehow solve any problem ought to study what Fr. Ripperger has to say in the video above and in other videos he has made over the years. There are a number of them.
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There are many seemingly "masculine" men in the surface who are quite effeminate in reality, such as the average victimized MGTOW. One of the most evident characteristics of the effeminate man is the total aversion to anything which requires sacrifice and suffering. Effeminate men tend to flee from anything that is not pleasurable. They also do not take risks. True masculine men are as scarce as true feminine women nowadays.
This article has a list of how the vice of effeminacy manifest itself in men:
* A pathological refusal to deal with objective reality (intense normalcy bias, self-delusion)
* Hatred of exertion
* An intense aversion to helping others (because helping almost always involves exertion)
* The refusal to voluntarily take on ANY hardship, discomfort, or… wait for it… SUFFERING
* Lashing out at virile people as a defense mechanism
* Need for human respect
* Hypersensitivity, easily “triggered”, often in “pissy moods”
* Intense judgmentalism and hyper-criticality
* Inordinate attachment to money – tightfistedness, stinginess
* Intense selfishness and self-absorption
* Sense of entitlement, especially to other peoples’ money
* Narcissism, both grandiose and vulnerable
* Incessant bitching, criticizing and complaining while refusing to act or charitably instruct others
* Shunning personal responsibility, most especially taking responsibility for the actions of others or for no-fault accidents
* Perpetual victimhood, oftentimes due to premeditated self-sabotage
* Reducing Christianity to the merely theoretical, confined exclusively to the domain of ideas, utterly divorced from concrete action
* Liturgical fetishism, “empty eggshell” Catholicism
" If we look at St. Thomas’ words in the Summa in Article 1 of Question 138 of the Second Part of the Second Part, we see that at the core of the vice of effeminacy is a pathological aversion to a lack of pleasure, that is to say, an aversion to anything even remotely unpleasant, most especially any sort of exertion (work) or voluntary suffering".