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Re: Hear, woman !
« Reply #20 on: June 24, 2018, 08:06:29 PM »
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Ladislaus says:

At the end of the day, it's your choice to marry the woman.  If you can't trust her enough not to be scheming to rip you off, then you shouldn't marry her in the first place.  
If she can't trust the man's lead to get a prenup, then the man most definitely shouldn't marry her. She has bad intentions. At the very least, she will be disobedient. Litmus Test failed.


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Ladislaus says:

As for child support and alimony in the event that something unforeseen arises, you owe that to them anyway before God.
You must shed yourself from the indoctrination. Your err in the default thinking that children should automatically go to the wife.

The prenup should include the man keeping the children, if he isn't provably guilty of putting them in any kind of danger.

Re: Hear, woman !
« Reply #21 on: June 24, 2018, 08:07:55 PM »
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I highly recommend this video by Fr. Ripperger.
It's excellent for anyone who is currently distracted from the Catholic meaning of what a man is.
The Latin word for man is vir.
It's no small coincidence that vir is the root word of virtue.
What does it mean when a man has virtue, or is virtuous? It means he has attributes of a real man.
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To the modern ear, some of the things Fr. has to say here are shocking.
For example, how often have you heard reference to a promiscuous man implied as manly because of his "conquests?"
Fr. explains why a man who seeks multiple women for serving his pleasure is not manly at all, but effeminate!
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Re: Hear, woman !
« Reply #22 on: June 24, 2018, 08:14:02 PM »
But some of the anecdotes that she gives is reason to get a prenup, if the man is considering marriage.
No, they are reasons to not marry at all.  You seem to think that a prenup will make it possible to marry while escaping the evil system.  You want to have your cake and eat it too.

Given your view of marriage and of women, you should not be considering marriage.  A prenup is not going to make you capable of marriage.

Re: Hear, woman !
« Reply #23 on: June 24, 2018, 08:18:24 PM »
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Any man who is starting to think that a prenuptial agreement might somehow solve any problem ought to study what Fr. Ripperger has to say in the video above and in other videos he has made over the years. There are a number of them.
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Re: Hear, woman !
« Reply #24 on: June 24, 2018, 08:37:26 PM »
No, they are reasons to not marry at all.  You seem to think that a prenup will make it possible to marry while escaping the evil system.  You want to have your cake and eat it too.

Given your view of marriage and of women, you should not be considering marriage.  A prenup is not going to make you capable of marriage.
Another dumb, subjective opinion that's not a real argument. You're now trying to steer the subject to what I, personally, should or should not do, because you've lost the argument.

You can't counter the fact that a man should marry a woman who is willing to get a prenup, thereby he is protected from the courts & her at a later time, if she divorced him for reasons that go against the legal text of the prenup. In other words, she can't take his money, house, etc. If she agrees to it, and he asks her to get married, and they marry, it's a win-win situation. That is true love. She truly loves him by her obedience to get a prenup, and she shows no premeditative ill-will, and he obviously loves her, for he wouldn't have asked her to marry him.