Author Topic: hardly anyone should get married (Read 23650 times)

Geremia · « **Reply #55 on:** February 27, 2019, 02:43:24 PM »

Quote from: graceseeker on March 17, 2018, 01:25:34 PM

I have not met anyone who was worthy.. plenty I THOUGHT were worthy... until I found out who the person really is (is not)...

Is Christ not sufficient for you?

Cera · « **Reply #56 on:** February 27, 2019, 06:39:49 PM »

Quote from: graceseeker on March 17, 2018, 01:25:34 PM

hardly anyone should get married

We can see by the divorce rate how true that is

But then there are my experiences in life

I have not met anyone who was worthy.. plenty I THOUGHT were worthy... until I found out who the person really is (is not)...

so why all these marriages going on? I think people see unkosher things in the other just as I do.. but they marry anyway... NOT good.. (depending on how unkosher..)

The Op says:
I have not met anyone who was worthy.
Does this mean not worthy of HIMSELF?
Someone so extraordinarily arrogant should not get married.

Jaynek · « **Reply #57 on:** February 27, 2019, 06:55:27 PM »

Quote from: Cera on February 27, 2019, 06:39:49 PM

The Op says:
I have not met anyone who was worthy.
Does this mean not worthy of HIMSELF?
Someone so extraordinarily arrogant should not get married.

The OP of this thread is a woman and made the post almost a year ago. She has since been banned.
https://www.cathinfo.com/computers-and-technology/graceseeker-banned/msg606794/#msg606794

Olduvai Oliphant · « **Reply #58 on:** March 08, 2019, 07:21:37 PM »

I married late in life. (age 30) That made it hard for me to have the flexibility of habits that the joining of two people need. It has been 25 years now. It is still work. But, I believe that it is God's Work, so I persevere. Very few have ever been called straight to the Monastery or Convent. Marriage is for the rest of us. God's commandment was to "Go Forth and Multiply".
So we do. Sometimes we don't do it well. Sometimes it is easy and fun. However it is what we are called to do.
I'm glad I married. I'd be lonely and alone if I had not, and in my case, my wife (and St Maximillian Kolbe) are the cause of my conversion to the faith. So without marriage, my soul would have been truly lost. For this alone, I am forever grateful.

Troubled30 · « **Reply #59 on:** August 27, 2019, 05:10:38 PM »

Women who do no want to be a stay at home mom and having their children as their number one priority, SHOULD NOT MARRY.

MEN who dont want to financially protect his wife so she could stay at home, SHOULD NOT MARRY

There are plenty of "trad" women working outside and they do not have financial problems. Sometimes encouraged by modern "trad" husbands who want to travel and have a good living standard.

This kind of people should be banned by priests...

I do know a lot of inmature "trads" who believe they are trads because they go to TLM or are against abortion, but agree to leave children at daycare system and live like a modern family.

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