I'm nearly 60, too late for sisterhood

Where there a will, there a way.

I married an Asian pagan. She by the grace of God converted to the Catholic faith. She has been praying the Rosary and attending Mass even before she got baptized.

Asians are less corrupted and more conservative, they are less prone to divorce. Why don't you try Asians?? Of course you also need to pray in the meantime.

It’s (convent) novus ordo, for me, an automatic deal breaker.

Chances are it's a nest of lesbians, too.

Seraphina, maybe you can start a teaching order of sisters.  

Not really possible. One needs a foundation, a superior—-I will not operate without one, money, and sisters.  One also must have the requisite administrative, financial, and management skills, things for which I have zero aptitude.  
There’s also the very serious problem of dealing with the civil authorities and of finding suitable students from truly Catholic homes.  Although I am myself, a teacher, if I had children of my own, I would not ever send them to school, not even to a Catholic school.  The influence of the few students from bad homes almost always ends up dragging the others down.  When parents ask me which school I recommend, I always tell them to homeschool if at all possible.
I do not have the authority or physical health and stamina necessary to start a school.  
Have you heard of the problems in New York and in the city in particular?  If Cuomo gets his way, the public school administrations will, come September 30, be entering private and religious schools to determine if they are providing a “substantially equivalent curriculum” to that of the public schools.  If they determine it is not, the state may shut the school and notify parents within 24 hours to make alternate arrangements for their children.  The MSM has said nothing about this “law” concocted illegally by executive order.  In NYC, like the state of NY, vaccines are mandatory in all schools for students and staff except by medical exemption.  In the city, the exemption must be from a NYC DOE physician or from another physician who submits to the city physicians.  They must be M.D.’s, not P.A.s, chiropractors, naturopaths, (not legal in NYS).  The city is working to add HPV to the list of mandatory vaccines for children, age 9 and up.  That will also include adults.  My school has already lost eight very fine large families due to the vaccine issue.  If HPV is added, it could very well result in our school closing down after operating since 1948.  People like me will get no compensation.  None of the younger teachers, although mainly Protestant, will accept the HPV shot, and the majority of parents, even if they accept some of the other shots, will consent to HPV.  It’s based upon the premise that children become sɛҳuąƖly active at 10-12 years of age!  Personally, I’m not concerned with vaccines since I’m old enough to have had the diseases, and the HPV is ineffective in post-menopausal women.  
It has come to the tipping point where one must choose between God and a job. We Catholics already know the majority will compromise.  I’ve come to the place in life where, although I don’t like it, I’d rather be homeless and found deceased somewhere than forfeit Heaven.  I hope God has other plans, but if He doesn’t, it’s okay.  Maybe some other soul can be saved in the process.

I believe a 60 yo who is alone and has no family (or hid family isn't catholic) shoulf join a religious order. Maybe with other 60 yo or mature women.

The world is very dangerous to live without other christians.

Real catholics should live together according to their state of life.

Maybe.  Not everyone is called to that life, though.  Some of the early saints were called to be hermits.  Now, the age limit for joining a religious order is largely a practical one.  Ideally, someone should be allowed to join at any age ... except that the costs of healthcare increase with age, and so it would be hard for an order to absorb a lot of older people as the grow closer to the end of their lives.

It sounds good, but where is this religious order that takes old lady novices?  I’ve found one, in France.  You need to speak fluent French and be debt free.  It’s novus ordo, for me, an automatic deal breaker.  

Dear Serafina
Maybe God is calling you to start a new order, I don't now.
But just think about it and talk with a good traditional priest.
Maybe in the past it wasn't common to enter to a religious order at 60 years old. But times have changed, catholics are isolated, the world is very dangerous than it was in the past.
I have read that there were widowers who took vows at mature age. Not the ideal for a single woman, but we don't live in 1940 when one could know at 18 if there was a religious vocation (people were raised catholic, attended Mass since childhood, it was more easy to know it).
Maybe Im wrong, but I believe catholics should live with other catholics.

That shouldn't stop religious orders from accepting older people, nor should it stop an old single person from joining. If a person in the order faces a serious health issue, they should offer the pain from lack of medical assistance up to the Lord. Both order and prospective candidate should have that understanding before anyone joins.

Copy your response out and read it when you are old and in pain.