Hi everyone,
This is my first post, so I apologize if I put this in the wrong section!
So my girlfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years, and have been [fornicating] for about 2 years. We are 22. I have always carried my Catholic faith with me, and taken it fairly seriously, but now am beginning to truly realize I need to stop having sex before marriage (I know, it has taken some time). I want to stop having sex with my girlfriend. I am simply not sure how to tell her I do not want to any longer.
We live together in community; there are six of us in a house going to university. We each have our own room/space. It could be a little awkward/different afterwards, but to be honest this is the least of my concerns.
I want to tell her as soon as possible, but am nervous she will take it personally and be hurt. I guess what I am asking is: How should I tell my girlfriend I think it is best if we stop being sɛҳuąƖly active?
Any advice is deeply appreciated, and if you cannot write, any prayers would be wonderful too.
Thank you for taking the time to read!