I've actually known two Traditional Catholic couples, where the wife initiated divorce proceedings, and then used the fact that the father had spanked his children for allegations of "abuse" ... as leverage in the proceedings (even though they THEMSELVES had also spanked the children). And in a divorce proceeding, since it's not a criminal proceeding, the allegation sticks, because it's entirely at the discretion of the (usually feminist female) judge. They're deliberately trying to strip fathers of their authority over their family.