Living in the North I'm seeing a type of effeminate man I've never seen before. Does it have to do with location? I'm not saying every man here is like this but I'm seeing it. These are not  men who are openly ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ but married men, men with girlfriends, fathers of homeschooled children and the like. Many are well educated and professional. I can't say exactly what it is, it's a combination of their mannerisms and general appearance. I'm very frightened by it and it's not something I noticed in the South. I did see men who were openly ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ and effeminate at times, like when in a store but not this effeminate father type.

Due to media influence, effeminacy is the new "cool". A "caring", "compassionate", "empathetic" man is the one that is promoted by the media as the ideal man. It is all part of legitimizing ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖity, by making even straight guys more like homos.

It's not something that I see outside of college campuses, here in the Midwest, but it definitely exists. Be prepared to see more of it, as the West slides further into apostasy. It was a fairly well-known phenomena in the late Roman empire as well. "Nothing new is under the sun."

I didn't see it when I didn't live in the North though.

It makes me uncomfortable but I don't know what to do about my son seeing it. They are everywhere even at homeschool events. I think it's very bad for him to be around that. The older homeschooled boys are somewhat effeminate too. They look like normal boys but then you are around them for a minute and you notice they just lack some kind of aggressiveness or something I can't quite but my finger on, but you notice it's not there.

The prevalence of those mannerisms is likely more of a survival technique among the men living in liberal regions than a reflection of their real personality.

When political correctness and scandinavian or anglo-style feminism starts to completely dominate society, a significant fraction of the men won't be tolerated if they put on airs that seem "too masculine."  Paper pushing jobs now exist within a feminized work-place.  Which means the mannerisms of the hair salon are more likely to survive than a man who simply speaks frankly.  Sure, the women will let there be a few high powered exceptions.  And those guys will be the first ones to jump on the throats of any potential rivals.  

The men out there who are enabling feminism are operating from blind impulses of their psychology.  They are in an environment where they are among women and men - and because it is a mixed environment - social competition comes to the fore in the brains.  In the workplace they have the opportunity of causing harm to potential social rivals.  So what does a certain class of liberally raised professional men do to adapt.  They make sure they're non-threatening.  They adopt the mannerisms that the anglo, scandinavian, and seattle style feminists want them to adopt.  That's my explanation for it.

I've seen a professional man on this street who will wear a baby pouch on the front of his shirt.  This sort of thing is taking over just as the way chavdom and wiggers, and tattooed scuм take over the working classes.

Because that's what the women reward with their behavior, and that's what the people dominating society want.

Because that's what the women reward with their behavior

Sometimes the reward is negative -  they are less likely to try and brand and destroy the reputation of a man who doesn't offend them in some way for being himself.

 

So they will lose their masculine traits to gain a woman that wants a feminized man?

No, they do it to avoid being purged.  Imagine living in England or Scandinavia.  How do you survive as professional paper pusher there?  A large chunk of the men there will start thinking and speaking like women, holding the same pc attitudes, etc.

I'm seeing it though!

What you're seeing is that liberal women who just want to nest aren't too picky about overt signs of masculinity.  They're more interested in making sure the men are reliably liberal and pc, of their "class."

What's scary is that many liberal women are more interested in nesting than many conservative raised women.  

Actually, it's after their double-minded fathers send the conservative girls through public high schools or universities that the girls stop believing in traditional family morality.

I know it doesn't explain the north / south discrepancy but what effect does the use on the contraceptive pill and other birth control devices have on the feminization of men? It is acknowledged that fish living in eostrogen-rich streams are negatively affected.

I don't doubt environmental toxins have an effect, but I think just having to be constantly in the presence of women would be enough to change behavior pretty significantly.  When women are everywhere most men have to be on their tiptoes everywhere.  That's how it goes.

Oh! I forgot to say that I have heard and read that there can be a feminizing effect on a male child conceived when a woman is taking the pill, and a masculinizing effect on a female when she has recently gone off it. Sorry no references just now, though someone else may be familiar with it.

Where we live we see more (numbers) masculine men and it does my heart good.