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Dominative Power over an Adult Unmarried Daughter
« on: June 17, 2026, 07:20:22 AM »
Does a father have dominative power over his adult unmarried daughter?  I cannot find teachings before Vatican II that support that he does.  One of the few priests who I know supports that he does have dominative power is Fr. Chad Ripperger.

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Re: Dominative Power over an Adult Unmarried Daughter
« Reply #1 on: June 17, 2026, 07:36:10 AM »
Does a father have dominative power over his adult unmarried daughter?  I cannot find teachings before Vatican II that support that he does.  One of the few priests who I know supports that he does have dominative power is Fr. Chad Ripperger.

Depending on what you mean, that could be a stupid question.

If we're talking about an obligation of obedience and the woman in question still lives at home, then absolutely.

The father can approve (or disapprove) of any of her behavior, and she has to comply, or else she's out of the house. One of the evils and disorders of the modern world is the fact that women can MORE EASILY get a job than men -- so a black sheep daughter likely won't care if she gets kicked out. In fact, in some situations, the adult daughter could even have an easier time staying employed than the father himself!

https://www.cathinfo.com/the-greater-depression-chapter-i/348-000-jobs-went-to-women-21-000-went-to-men/

Modern women (which includes Trads, since they also live in the Modern World, and in modern times) are constantly tugged by the World to be independent. Taken far enough, this usually leads to disaster, because women need male guidance.


Re: Dominative Power over an Adult Unmarried Daughter
« Reply #2 on: June 17, 2026, 07:44:14 AM »
If we're talking about an obligation of obedience and the woman in question still lives at home, then absolutely.

But this can apply to an adult son as well.

Let's imagine a situation, for example, where an adult unmarried daughter wants to live on her own, but the father disagrees and commands her to stay under his roof.  Does she have the moral obligation to obey?

Re: Dominative Power over an Adult Unmarried Daughter
« Reply #3 on: June 17, 2026, 08:02:22 AM »
But this can apply to an adult son as well.

Let's imagine a situation, for example, where an adult unmarried daughter wants to live on her own, but the father disagrees and commands her to stay under his roof.  Does she have the moral obligation to obey?
I think it would depend on the situation. Is the young woman leaving the home so she can be free to sin? If so, then she needs to obey her dad and stay. Or is she not fully mature, metal illness which affect her judgment and safety, developmental delays, etc. then she would need to obey her dad.  But for all other non-sinful reasons or safety reason, then she is free to move.

Re: Dominative Power over an Adult Unmarried Daughter
« Reply #4 on: June 17, 2026, 08:13:05 AM »
I think it would depend on the situation. Is the young woman leaving the home so she can be free to sin? If so, then she needs to obey her dad and stay. Or is she not fully mature, metal illness which affect her judgment and safety, developmental delays, etc. then she would need to obey her dad.  But for all other non-sinful reasons or safety reason, then she is free to move.

Hmm.  Have you heard of Fr. Ripperger's position on the matter?  It is my understanding that he holds that adult unmarried daughters are under the authority of their fathers until marriage to protect their virtue.  I am having difficulty seeing how leaving the home, even if not for sinful reasons, would not violate the principle of protecting her virtue.  This is of course given that what Fr. Ripperger holds is true.