PW,
I know why you ask this question. But do not fret! You're suffering will bring your closer to our Lord, and perhaps, shorten your time in Purgatory.
Perhaps Our Lord has prepared a husband for you, who will love you and adopt your daughter as his own. This would be an amazing man, because not all men can love children that are not biologically theirs.
Or perhaps, Our Lord has decided to use you as example of what true repentance, obedience, and submissiveness is.
Have faith! The Lord is preparing you and your blessed daughter for something.
In a really dark time, a priest shared with me this wisdom. Yes, your sin was public and wicked, but Our Lord, when we ask and are obedient, can use your sin and repentance for something incredibly good. It has been true in my own life.....
St. Mary Magadalen, pray for us.